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On Aug 22, 2025, David Dalton wrote
(in article<0001HW.2E593B0F00DDFC4E70000B1FC38F@news.eternal-september.org>):

> Here s an email I sent to whitecoat@cbc.ca as a followup to
> CBC Radio One’s White Coat, Black Art’s show on women’s
> sexual health problems, including lack of libido or declining
> libido with age.
>
> -------------------------------------------------------
>
> Hello,
>
> Many problems with low or declining with age libido
> can be related to lack of optimal sexual compatibility.
>
> With that in mind, my EIght Sexual Harmonics theory,
> summarized on https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/8H.html ,
> may be of interest.
>
> According to that theory, the following relationships
> are optimally sexually compatible (and note that
> I define bisexual as attracted to both genders, not
> necessarily having sex with both genders, so
> there are far more bisexuals than have been reported):
>
> straight-type-1-M--straight-type-1-F
> straight-type-2-M--bif
> straight-type-2-F--bim
> (those lock for life)
> bif--bif
> bif--lesbian
> lesbian--lesbian
> bim--bim
> bim--gay
> gay--gay
> (those haven't locked for life but may start doing so).
>
> The following relationships are partially compatible (compatible,
> but less than optimally sexually compatible, and will not lock
> for life, and may have declining libido more often):
>
> straight-type-1-M--bif
> straight-type-1-F--bim
> bif--bim (who often go bye bye).
>
> The following relationships are incompatible but there
> has been one-way attraction, which may have stopped.
> Such relationships may have resulted in adverse
> physical and mental health effects for the one who
> is deceived, in a black widow/er effect, even terminal
> cancer in some cases:
>
> straight-type-1-M--lesbian
> bim--lesbian
> straight-type-1-F--gay
> bif--gay.
>
> The following relationships are incompatible and
> there may be one-way attraction but no ill-health effects,
> and again the one way attraction (of straight-type-1
> to straight-type-2) may have stopped:
>
> straight-type-1-M--straight-type-2-F
> straight-type-1-F--straight-type-2-M.
>
> The following relationships are incompatible
> and there would be no attraction:
>
> straight-type-2-M--straight-type-2-F
> gay--lesbian.
>
> However sometimes there are platonic friendship
> parenting units of gay--lesbian, and sometimes two
> such units form fence-jumping foursomes, more
> often in countries that repress gays and lesbians.
>
> My theory also covers transgender and multi-spirit
> (two-spirit and four-spirit, many of whom identify
> as queer or non-binary) individuals.
>
> The web page is fairly rough/sketchy for now, but I
> may develop it into an arxiv.org (http://arxiv.org (http://arxiv.org/))
> electronic preprint
> sometime soon.

Well, arxiv.org does have a Quantitative Biology section,
but I don’t think my Eight Sexual Harmonics theory
would fit there, so I am more likely to just do an
expanded web page at first, and consider submitting
at article to a sex research journal after a while.

> I identify as straight-type-2-F (male compatible, orgasmic
> up close, only with bifs, women attracted to both genders).
> Straight-type-2 women would be women compatible,
> orgasmic up close, only with bims, men attracted to
> both genders.
>
> p.s.
>
> I forgot to mention that there is bridge/friendship/spiritual/trust
> attraction between straight-type-2-M and lesbian who is happily
> lesbian, and between straight-type-2-F and gay who is happily gay.
>
> Thus there are sometimes incompatible platonic parenting duos of
> straight-type-2-M--lesbian
> and
> straight-type-2-F--gay
>
> with no ill-health effects.
>
> p.p.s. The “may start”/“may have”’s above may come to pass as
> early as Saturday evening, after new/dark moon, an auspicious
> time for new beginnings. I am also trying to make most
> couples optimally sexually compatible (a minority already were).
> (That was not part of my email.)

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