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In the following I will use the terminology given in my
Eight Sexual Harmonics matchmaking theory on
https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/8H.html .

When I say partially compatible I mean two-way
compatible, but less than optimally sexually compatible
and less likely to stick.

I propose that:

1. optimally sexually compatible relationships lead to the
longest lifespans for the couple,

2. celibate people, those in a partially compatible relationship,
and those in a platonic (no attraction either way) incompatible
relationship have intermediate lifespans,

3. for incompatible relationships in which there is one-way
attraction (so one person is faking interest), there is a
black widow or black widower effect which causes adverse
effects on the mental and physical health of the one
who is deceived (is attracted), sometimes even to the
extent of terminal cancer.

So when a lesbian is married to a bim or straight-type-1 male
there is a black widow effect on the man, and when a gay is
married to a bif or straight-type-1 female, there is a black
widower effect on the woman.

However you may rightly argue that that is not the case
for all cancers. But I believe that when it is the case
it increases the probability of the cancer being terminal.

Also such one-way deceptive relationships might be
more common in countries where LGBT people
are repressed (and would have been more common
in North America in the past than recently, though
some in North America are still deluded by religion),
which might lead to a higher incidence of terminal
cancer in such countries.

How would a lesbian perform sexually with a man?
She could just lie there and fake it, or she could
think of a woman who is not there. How could
a gay perform sexually with a woman? Most likely
he would think of a man who is not there, and
might close his eyes or have a distant look in his eyes.

I guess some evidence supporting my theory would be
if the partners of some who have died of cancer have
come out as lesbian or gay after that death. Otherwise
there is my matchmaking ability, but you may not be
willing to accept that as evidence just yet.

Feel free to do research to support or debunk my theory,
but if you publish, be sure to reference this post (e.g.
by the MessageID in the headers) and my web page.

-- 
https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page)
“Early morning, jubilators, up to no good, instigators... Sons of long
forgotten races, that the darkest night embraces” (Ron Hynes & D.O’D)