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From: AlleyCat <katt@gmail.com>
Newsgroups: alt.fan.rush-limbaugh,can.politics,alt.politics.trump,alt.politics.liberalism,alt.politics.democrats,alt.politics.usa.republican
Subject: Trump's Wealth Has Grown Again - Forbes: $7.5 BILLION - Bloomberg: $6.5 BILLION - Time Magazine: "Real-Time Worth": $2.6-$3.1 BILLION
Date: Thu, 29 Aug 2024 09:13:06 -0500
Organization: AlleyCat Computing, Inc.


On Wed, 28 Aug 2024 17:20:05 -0700,  Alan says...  

> 
> On 2024-08-28 16:06, AlleyCat wrote:
> > 
> > Trump's Wealth Has Grown Again - Forbes: $7.5 BILLION - Bloomberg: $6.5 BILLION - Time Magazine: "Real-Time
> > Worth": $2.6-$3.1 BILLION
> 
> LOL!
> 
> Says the guy who posts MULTIPLE copies of the same text!

Says the guy who said Trump was a billionaire and proven right as Trump always is.

What does that even MEAN?

Want me to post all the times YOU posted the same shit over and over and over, again?

Walz's retirement forms?

The definition of what a convicted felon is?

Ring any bells, hypocrite?

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Why Are Narcissists Such Hypocrites?

In the narcissistic world view, everything they do is the greatest. They can do no wrong. And, they refuse to 
see facts or evidence that suggests otherwise.

Fundamentally, this disconnect between facts and reality comes about because narcissists live in a fantasy 
world they construct for themselves. Their aim is to control their life by manipulating everyone else around 
them to see them they way they want to be seen.

When confronted with contrary facts to this reality, a narcissist will -

Ignore the facts

Blame other people for those faults

Lie to make them OK

Use triangulation and gaslighting to make other people believe their lies

Go on the offensive to distract people from their mistake

Narcissists are also overly judgmental. This too stems from the desire to be better than other people. By 
holding other people to high standards, they are able to easily criticize people who they fear might be 
competition and bring them down a notch.

A narcissist doesn't have to be good, they just feel and think they have to be better than you.

When a narcissist's judgmental mentality combines with their warped perception of reality, the become a 
hypocrite. A narcissist will blame you and call you out for doing exactly the same things that they do.

A narcissist will pay heavy lip service to themselves: how good they are at..., the high standards they hold 
for themselves, how they are perfect in every way. Yet, will feel no obligation to actually perform.

Yet, when you fail to hold to their unrealistic standards, they will call you out for being a failure.


Are All Narcissists Hypocrites?

All narcissists are hypocrites by their very nature. The symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder are 
thought to stem partially from upbringing, and invariably cause them to act hypocritical.

As a child, most narcissists experienced either overly strict parenting or lived in a family with little 
parental guidance. As a consequence they failed to develop self-esteem, and a healthy separation between 
their own thoughts and emotions and the thoughts and emotions of others.

Because of this, they need to need other people to feel good about them in order for them to feel good about 
themselves. And, they have a severely underdeveloped instinct for empathy.

Why does this make them hypocritical?

A narcissist will do anything to make themselves look good in the eyes of other people, and don't feel the 
need to be fair or reciprocate. They don't seem them self as an equal to everyone else. Instead, they are 
special in their own mind, and follow their own set of rules that don't apply to everyone else.

By definition, they are hypocrites because they don't apply their own rules for other people to themselves.


Do Narcissists Realize They are being Hypocritical?

While narcissists know they are being hypocritical on a intellectual level, they do not feel like they are 
being unfair or hypocritical.

This is very much linked to their difficulty separating their needs and wants from the needs and wants of 
others. To a narcissist, what is good for them is good forever everyone else. How could someone want 
something other than what they want?

So when a narcissist passes judgment on you, so that they feel good, there is no contradiction in their mind 
when they act the same way that you did, again so they feel good. If it feels good to them, then it aligns 
with their conception of good and bad.

If a narcissist could be objective about the facts of the situation, then they would agree that they are 
being hypocritical. For instance, if you described what they are doing back to them, but say that you are 
talking about a friend, then they would be able to recognize how they are being hypocritical.

However, if you confront a narcissist directly with their hypocrisy, then they will never be able to 
recognize or accept that that they are the ones at fault.