Davin News Server

On 2024-09-12, AlleyCat <katt@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> On Thu, 12 Sep 2024 09:32:27 -0700,  Rudy Canoza says...  
>
>> > But they DON'T know him.
>> 
>> Walz's brother said he didn't think his brother had the right sort of 
>> "character" to be making policy decisions. He has clarified that he is opposed to Tim Walz's policy 
>> positions.
>
> Thank you.>
>===================================================================================================
=========
>
> AlleyCat is one of the several people who dominate Rudy on a daily basis, keeping their bootheels 
on his 
> little pencil neck to the amusement of all.
>
> THIS is why Rudy is Rudy:
>
> When Dad Isn't There
>
> Research has found that when a father is not present it is likely:
>
> 	The infant was born pre-term or low birth weight or with dwarfism. 
>
> 	Many of these families will be low-income households.
>
> 	Children may struggle with regulating emotions which can lead to an increase in aggressive 
behavior and 
> difficulty 	with social skills. Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! 
>
> 	A child will become involved in risky behavior.
>
> 	Sons have the potential to struggle with gender identity and role confusion.
>
> 	Even if the biological father role is filled by another, some of these figures become temporary 
or have 
> the potential 	of being abusive.
>
> 	Children will be left with feelings of blame or emptiness as to why their father left.
>
> Where Did He Go?
>
> What is the reason these fathers are not staying around? Though simply having children can suggest 
being a 
> father, for many men there is more a father wants to provide for their family. Unemployment and 
lack of 
> education can be contributing factors as to why fathers leave.5 When men feel they are not meeting 
the social 
> demands that define fathers, the idea of achieving other fatherly roles decreases and it may seem 
easier to 
> leave. Other reasons for father absence can include imprisonment, infidelity, and abuse.
>
> How to Help Children of Absent Fathers
>
> Though the negative consequences of father absence can be disheartening, there is still hope for 
these 
> children.
>
> Include positive extended male family figures in the child's life. Children can form strong 
relationships as 
> they have a safe, stable male figure to rely upon as they grow up. This could come from a 
grandparent, uncle, 
> or another positive male family member. When these men are present for monumental moments in life, 
as well as 
> day-to-day interactions, a void can be filled, and the child's confidence can grow.4 Including 
extended 
> family can also provide another resource for the mother to help reduce stress overload and 
feelings of 
> loneliness.
>
> If there is no male family member available or near to help, try finding a mentor in the 
community. When a 
> child is able to spend time with a successful individual in their community, different doors of 
potential are 
> opened to them to see ways that they can become successful.8 Examples of mentors could be coaches, 
teachers, 
> after school staff, ecclesiastical leaders, etc.
>
> Find support groups in the local area. Just like children can find mentors, single mothers can 
find others 
> working through these difficulties. There truly is strength in numbers. Brainstorm, network, and 
help each 
> other. Though the past may not change, the future trajectory can be a positive one. Make time for 
you.
>
> Growing up without a father brings risks, but that does not determine you or your child's future. 
Fatherless 
> families can become resilient in their circumstance. Let those who your child will be interacting 
with know 
> of their struggles. Teachers, caretakers, and other community figures can help alleviate the 
difficulties 
> your child may face. But they cannot help if they are not aware. Remember, there is hope for 
brighter 
> tomorrows. There are fathers who chose to stay in their child's life after growing up without 
their father. 
> You do not have to let the absentee determine what your family will become. For stories of hope 
please visit 
> the references below.
>

Anyone who believes males need tampons is not in a healthy state of mind and should not be allowed 
anywhere near the White House.



-- 
pothead
Kamala Harris Word Salad Special Of The Day
Served Complete With Venn Diagram Dressing