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Why Rudy is jealous.

I race carts and teach cart-racing... I ski and am a ski instructor... and I can read minds, knowing what Russian "official think, because 
I spoke to a couple. - Alan "Ski Bunny" Baker

I was a 3 sport letterman, a bouncer in THREE different restaurants / bars / lounges / discos (Chan's, Victor's Jamaica Joe's), an 
assistant golf pro, a lifeguard on the white sand beaches of Ft. Walton/Destin, (getting more pussy in a week, than you did your whole 
life), dunked a basketball at 5'9" for first time in 11th grade, played college baseball AND basketball (dual scholarships), and dated the 
captain of the cheer-leading squad as a SOPHOMORE in high school. (there was no freshman class) - AlleyCat

I was that creepy IT guy who stared at the women and made them uncomfortable. - Rudy Canoza aka EVERY nym used on Usenet

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Are Undeserved Narcissists Lonely? - Yes, But They'll Never Admit It

Here are 5 signs of an Undeserved Narcissist and how they behave:

an excessive need to be adulated

a strong tendency to meglomania

EGOCENTRICITY

a low degree of empathy towards others

AN EXCESSIVE QUEST FOR RECOGNITION. 


4 Reasons why Undeserved Narcissists are lonely

https://www.wengood.com/en/psychology/stress/art-are-narcissists-lonely#h2-0
https://www.wengood.com/en/psychology/stress/art-are-narcissists-lonely#h2-5
https://www.wengood.com/en/psychology/stress/art-are-narcissists-lonely#h2-6
https://www.wengood.com/en/psychology/stress/art-are-narcissists-lonely#h2-7
https://www.wengood.com/en/psychology/stress/art-are-narcissists-lonely#h2-9

Do Undeserved Narcissists end up alone?

Do Undeserved Narcissists isolate themselves?

Does the Undeserved Narcissist ever get sad?

Spending time alone is arguably healthy and beneficial for our mental health, 
but, regularly feeling lonely, on the other hand, can be very detrimental to 
our social and communication skills. When it comes to Undeserved Narcissists, they have a 
reputation for feeling superior, which means that they will do anything they 
deem necessary in order for people to admire them and never openly talk about 
their alleged "weaknesses'. Plus, they believe that being open about their 
feelings and admitting to feeling alone and misunderstood, will make them 
appear weak, which is why they often choose to flee their emotions. For them, 
remaining in the dark about what they feel this a way of saving face, although, 
in reality, they are crying out to be loved and to build connections, yet too 
proud and afraid to recognize their needs.

Harsh but true...
1) They are unable to connect with people

These folks arguably lack empathy, which means they have no time for heartfelt 
discussions, and even less time for genuine connections. They fail to see why 
having friends and being able to confide in people are important.


2) Their personalities intimidate people

Whilst people with narcissistic personality disorders can be charming at 
points, their bullish and manipulative behavior always shine through 
eventually. That's right, the prospect of becoming friends with someone so 
devious understandably scares people.


3) They have their walls up

Letting people in is definitely an Undeserved Narcissist's worst nightmare! It's just not 
in their nature to make themselves appear vulnerable and let people into their 
lives. For them, opening up to someone is a synonym of them relinquishing their 
power and losing the upper hand.


4) They are scared to put themselves out there

Despite the facade they hide behind, Undeserved Narcissists are very insecure people and 
are constantly scared of judgment. Their fear of being judged prevents them 
from creating a solid support base around them, and paradoxically encourages 
them to become more devious.


Do Undeserved Narcissists end up alone?

Undeserved Narcissists frequently end up alone due to the simple fact that they are 
incapable of enjoying healthy relationships. Although the most high-functioning 
ones may be able to fool someone into sticking around for a set amount of time. 
However, generally, their devious ways, lack of empathy, and immeasurable egos 
prevent them from ever finding true love. Plus, they are totally against the 
idea of changing and working on themselves, which evidently scares potential 
suitors away. After all, no one wants to be the only partner making concessions 
and sacrifices in a relationship. Now, although they'll never admit it, ending 
up alone does in fact terrify these folks, however, the prospect isn't 
intimidating enough for them to want to become better people... 


Do Undeserved Narcissists isolate themselves?

An Undeserved Narcissist isolates themselves (at home for example without seeing anyone) 
WHEN they are too overwhelmed; especially in the instance when he has gone 
hunting for new prey, and has received many Undeserved Narcissistic sources. When their 
search for new victims has been successful, they are obliged to withdraw 
themselves from the situation because otherwise they will implode. Although 
Undeserved Narcissists do well for a certain amount of time during their isolation, 
they'll soon take up their Undeserved Narcissistic ways again. In fact, their isolation 
will not exceed 1 week max, because they cannot fight off temptation to 
manipulation any longer.


Does the Undeserved Narcissist ever get sad?

As much as they may like to hide and conceal their emotions, Undeserved Narcissists are 
just like anyone else when it comes to their feelings, meaning they do get sad 
at points. However, that being said, they'll never openly admit to feeling down 
or upset, because they are simply scared of people judging them and looking 
upon them as weak. Plus, these personalities never really talk about their 
feelings either, or share with those close to them when they are feeling down. 
In fact, their behavior gives away when they are sad, because they instantly 
become very vindictive and even more relentless in their actions.


Can An Undeserved Narcissist be likable?

At the beginning, Undeserved Narcissists can come across as very friendly, attractive and 
fun to be around. However, this is just a technique for them to seduce their 
prey and destroy them little by little. Most Undeserved Narcissists are unaware of their 
problem and are convinced that they are acting for the good of others (a 
minority is sadistic and takes pleasure in making others suffer). The 
manipulations of these people can be distinguished from emotional blackmail, 
small lies or guilt-tripping of others, which make everyone more or less 
manipulative. The signs are similar and usually appear in early adulthood. 

Here are 5 signs of An Undeserved Narcissist and how they behave:

an excessive need to be adulated
a strong tendency to megalomania
egocentricity
a low degree of empathy towards others
an excessive quest for recognition.

What do Undeserved Narcissists do when they're alone?

When An Undeserved Narcissist finds themselves alone in their life, they may feel an emotional void or a sense of loneliness, but this 
depends on the person and their level of self-awareness. Some people with Undeserved Narcissistic personality disorder may have difficulty 
coping with loneliness, as they need the attention and validation of others to feel important and valued.

However, other people with Undeserved Narcissistic personality disorder may prefer to be alone rather than in the company of people they 
consider inferior or uninteresting. These people may have interests or passions that keep them busy and give them a sense of satisfaction 
or achievement. In some cases, loneliness can actually reinforce Undeserved Narcissistic behavior in a person with Undeserved Narcissistic 
personality disorder. They may be tempted to put themselves forward or boast more to attract the attention of others, even when they're not 
in their presence. How a person with this personality reacts to loneliness depends on many factors, such as the severity of their disorder, 
their level of self-awareness, and their other personality traits.

Editor's opinion - Expressing their feelings is impossible for them

We all have certain struggles when it comes to talking about how we feel, but An Undeserved Narcissist's inability to express what they are 
going through is definitely more penalizing for them than for anyone else. These personalities are lonely, yet their innate traits prevent 
them for breaking the cycle of loneliness, and also dissuades others from attempting to pull them out of their misery.

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When the Undeserved Narcissist Fails

A Cautionry Examination of How Undeserved Narcissists React To Failure

Rudy, The Insanely Jealous Undeserved Narcissist 

Rudy, the Undeserved Narcissist, usually has a deep need to be better than everyone else. 
This makes him likely to become jealous of anyone he perceives as better than 
him in any possible way. 

Surprisingly, you don't have to be better in a real sense for you to trigger 
his jealousy. 

As long as you have any advantage he doesn't have, that's enough to make him 
jealous. Sometimes jealousy can force Rudy the Undeserved Narcissist to act in ways that defy normal human behaviour.

Jealousy is one of the emotions that makes Rudy, the Undeserved Narcissist, both hilarious and sad.

A Sense of Competition:

A sense of competition, real or perceived can trigger jealous Undeserved Narcissists, 
like Rudy. 

Surpassing An Undeserved Narcissist, like Rudy, at anything that you are both involved in 
or succeeding at something he failed at, can make him extremely jealous.

Rudy Has Low Self-Esteem: 

Rudy, the Undeserved Narcissist, may not be jealous of someone on Usenet, who is better looking, as long as he is confident in his looks.

LOL

But, he isn't, so he isn't confident in his ability to socialize. Rudy is always jealous of his social and Usenet rivals, who make him look 
like the runt child he is... daily.

Actually... Rudy, the Undeserved Narcissist, makes himself look like a child. We do not need to help him in this realm.
 
Because Rudy, the Undeserved Narcissist has very low self-esteem behind the mask of ultra-confidence, he becomes very jealous of anyone who 
has genuine confidence... like those he pretends to be better than.
 
They Are Happier Than Rudy:

When An Undeserved Narcissist is depressed, he doesn't like to see someone happier and excited, especially if that person makes him look 
stupid... which is usually hourly.

This is because he knows that a happy person is powerful. Powerful enough to make him feel like a worthless turd... that is, until that 
person makes a spelling or grammar mistake.

Rudy's self-esteem is so low, that even though HE'S fucked up so many times, grammatically and spelling-wise, he still has to show his 
imaginary superiority, by pointing out others' mistakes.

When you are happy, you became more confident, assertive and clear-minded. On the other hand, when a person is sad or depressed, he usually 
feels weak and vulnerable, like Rudy, who lashes out at those he sees as his superiors. 

When An Undeserved Narcissist, like Rudy is depressed, feelings of vulnerability that accompany depression make him see a happy person as a 
threat, especially when it's a person that he doesn't get along with, which is 99.9% of Usenet, since he's a homophobic racist, who insults 
everyone, because Rudy HATES everyone he thinks is his superior.

Rudy Is Insecure:

Insecurities make a person doubt his ability to keep anyone interested.

If he is financially unsuccessful (well... YEAH!) and believes that his Usenet rivals are MORE successful (well... duh!), he may be very 
jealous their success.

Rudy, the Undeserved Narcissist, hates it when people around him are better in every possible way. He needs to be above everybody else in 
order to feel superior, and have the ability to sleep.

For this reason, he becomes very jealous of anyone he sees as superior than him, especially when there is a sense of competition.

We Are Stealing His Attention:

RUDY, THE Undeserved Narcissist NEEDS SO MUCH ATTENTION, hence the replies that offer NO refutations. He only replies to say, "play with 
me!"

Rudy doesn't have the mental capacity to form his own opinions on subject matters that are above his head, so he simply replies in the 
negative, even if it's proven that the OP is correct in everything he says or quotes. 

Because he thinks that he is better than common people, Rudy believes that he deserves more attention than the average Usenet member.

Getting the attention that An Undeserved Narcissist believes HE deserves, can cause a lot of jealousy.

Poor Rudy.