From: AlleyCat <katt@gmail.com>
Newsgroups: alt.politics.trump,alt.politics.liberalism,alt.politics.democrats,alt.politics.usa.republican,alt.fan.rush-limbaugh,can.politics
Subject: Re: Chicken Shit Ski Bunny Runs And Hides
Date: Fri, 15 Nov 2024 08:50:37 -0600
Organization: AlleyCat Computing, Inc.
On Thu, 14 Nov 2024 23:15:21 -0800, Alan says...
> > No proof or refutation, noted... thank you.
> >
> > PLONK!
> And you still haven't figured it out.
Ohhhh, yes I have.
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What Happens When I Expose Narcissists?
What happens when the narcissist knows you know their secret?
Typically, they perceive criticisms as dangerous threats and lash out at the messenger.
Why do they behave this way? Typically, NPD is rooted in deep-seated childhood stress.
When someone with the disorder senses that a Usenet enemy sees them as something less than perfect, the realization triggers loneliness and
abandonment daggers, which immediately prompts them to throw up emotional shields and fight back.
In nearly all cases, the first thing they'll do is move to invalidate the person confronting them.
Loser.
Pussey.
Coward.
Running away.
From there, it can go several ways, depending on the surroundings and other mitigating factors.
How Will a Narcissist React if He Knows That He Is Losing Control Over You?
Narcissists don't relinquish control easily.
They stalk until you give in. LOL... never.
They're hardwired to resist subversion at all costs, resulting in the ultimate "dish it but can't take it" personality.
Moreover, they live in fabricated worlds guided by delusion. "Truth" becomes a subjective concept when dealing with a narcissist. They may
not even realize they're lying.
(BINGO!)
So how does a narcissist act when found out? In many instances, they'll:
Deploy threats
Step up manipulation and charm :-)
Give you the silent treatment - LOL ALAN! Psssh.
Gossip about you and smear your name - That's Rudy's domain.
Stalk you
DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!
Poke and provoke you in an attempt to break your confidence
Coward.
Run away!
Loser.
Actions To Take When the Narcissist Knows You Have Figured Him Out
There are several things you can do to prepare yourself for the wrath of a narcissist. But remember that some NPD patients are more
dangerous than others, which may require further protective action.
Ignore Them
PLONK!
Don't Fall for the Charm Offensive
Steel yourself against the charm offensive! It may sound counterintuitive, but many narcissists will dial up the magnetism when they feel
threatened. Their minds fear abandonment, so they do what they must to keep people around.
This tactic works very well on people who crave validation in the form of companionship. If that's you, prep doubly hard for the
confrontation.
Set Boundaries
No games, narc-nerd.
Whether personally or professionally, setting boundaries is always a good idea, and it's downright essential when dealing with a narcissist
- especially if you're bringing them information or news that challenges their inflated sense of self.
Before going in, write down your boundaries. Mull them over. Commit to them. When the time comes, you'll be able to access them more
readily.
Don't Blame Yourself
Ha! Never.
Narcissists are master manipulators with a talent for spinning situations and blaming everyone else for their misdeeds. Often, they use the
people in their lives as projection dumpsters. So before you confront one with something difficult, gird yourself!
Because they will try to flip the script and cast you in the role of malcontent. Don't fall for it. Don't let them weasel their way into
your sanity.
Tell Other Usenetters
Done.