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Are UNDESERVED Narcissists Lonely? - Yes, But They'll Never Admit It

Here are 5 signs of a narcissist and how they behave:

an excessive need to be adulated

a strong tendency to megalomania

EGOCENTRICITY

a low degree of empathy towards others

AN EXCESSIVE QUEST FOR RECOGNITION. 


5 Reasons Why Narcissists Are Lonely

What happens when a narcissist is alone for too long? When a narcissist finds themselves alone in their life, they may feel an emotional void or a 
sense of loneliness, but this depends on the person and their level of self-awareness. Some people with narcissistic personality disorder may have 
difficulty coping with loneliness, as they need the attention and validation of others to feel important and valued. However, other people with 
narcissistic personality disorder may prefer to be alone rather than in the company of people they consider inferior or uninteresting. These people 
may have interests or passions that keep them busy and give them a sense of satisfaction or achievement. In some cases, loneliness can actually 
reinforce narcissistic behavior. They may be tempted to put themselves forward or boast more to attract the attention of others, even when they're 
not in their presence. How a person with this personality reacts to loneliness depends on many factors, such as the severity of their disorder, their 
level of self-awareness, and their other personality traits.


Is being with a narcissist a lonely experience? ?? In short, yes. Being in a relationship with a narcissistic abuser is one of the loneliest 
experiences anyone can go through. These manipulators have a real talent when it comes to isolating their victims and cutting them off from their 
friends and families. Here, they will spread lies about their partners and do anything they can to sever the communication between them. Nothing is 
out of bounds for a narcissistic abuser, which means they will go to absolutely any lengths to dig their claws in. Victims of these evil people 
almost always feel cut off from everyone and everything, which explains why they become so dependent on their abusers. Breaking the cycle of abuse is 
a very difficult thing to overcome, and feeling cut off makes people feel even more vulnerable and lost. The only real way to escape the cycle is by 
contacting a therapist and following a specialized program.


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4 Reasons why narcissists feel so lonely and isolated

Harsh but true.

1) Narcissists are lonely because they are unable to connect with people
These folks arguably lack empathy, which means they have no time for heartfelt discussions, and even less time for genuine connections.
They fail to see why having friends and being able to confide in people are important.
Making friends doesn't feature in their priority list, which means they never really take the time needed to connect with people.
In fact, they prefer surface-level relationships and don't ever really understand the use of friendships.

2) Their personalities intimidate people (ammmm, not really)
Whilst people with narcissistic personality disorders can be charming at points, their bullish and manipulative behavior always shines through 
eventually.
That's right, the prospect of becoming friends with someone so devious understandably scares people
These people have no regard for other folks' feelings, which means they often come across as mean and heartless, which, by the way, isn't too far 
from the truth

3) They have their walls up
Letting people in is definitely a narcissist's worst nightmare! It's just not in their nature to make themselves appear vulnerable and let people 
into their lives.
For them, opening up to someone is a synonym of them relinquishing their power and losing the upper hand
Breaking down their walls is tough, simply because they are so afraid of being judged and mocked for showing people their real feelings and emotions

4) They are scared to put themselves out there
Despite the facade they hide behind, narcissists are very insecure people and are constantly scared of judgment.
Their fear of being judged prevents them from creating a solid support base around them, and paradoxically encourages them to become more devious
In short, being too scared to open up means they develop horrible habits when it comes to friendships, and inevitably just become hermits


Do narcissists end up alone?

Do narcissists isolate themselves?

Does the narcissist ever get sad?

Spending time alone is arguably healthy and beneficial for our mental health, but, regularly feeling lonely, on the other hand, can be very 
detrimental to our social and communication skills. When it comes to narcissists, they have a reputation for feeling superior, which means that they 
will do anything they deem necessary in order for people to admire them and never openly talk about their alleged "weaknesses'. Plus, they believe 
that being open about their feelings and admitting to feeling alone and misunderstood, will make them appear weak, which is why they often choose to 
flee their emotions. For them, remaining in the dark about what they feel this a way of saving face, although, in reality, they are crying out to be 
loved and to build connections, yet too proud and afraid to recognize their needs.
Harsh but true...

1) They are unable to connect with people

These folks arguably lack empathy, which means they have no time for heartfelt discussions, and even less time for genuine connections. They fail to 
see why having friends and being able to confide in people are important.

2) Their personalities intimidate people Whilst people with narcissistic personality disorders can be charming at points, their bullish and 
manipulative behavior always shine through eventually. That's right, the prospect of becoming friends with someone so devious understandably scares 
people.

3) They have their walls up Letting people in is definitely a narcissist's worst nightmare! It's just not in their nature to make themselves appear 
vulnerable and let people into their lives. For them, opening up to someone is a synonym of them relinquishing their power and losing the upper hand. 

4) They are scared to put themselves out there Despite the facade they hide behind, narcissists are very insecure people and are constantly scared of 
judgment. Their fear of being judged prevents them from creating a solid support base around them, and paradoxically encourages them to become more 
devious.


Do narcissists end up alone?

Narcissists frequently end up alone due to the simple fact that they are incapable of enjoying healthy relationships. Although the most high-
functioning ones may be able to fool someone into sticking around for a set amount of time. However, generally, their devious ways, lack of empathy, 
and immeasurable egos prevent them from ever finding true love. Plus, they are totally against the idea of changing and working on themselves, which 
evidently scares potential suitors away. After all, no one wants to be the only partner making concessions and sacrifices in a relationship. Now, 
although they'll never admit it, ending up alone does in fact terrify these folks, however, the prospect isn't intimidating enough for them to want 
to become better people...

Do narcissists isolate themselves?

A narcissist isolates themselves (at home for example without seeing anyone) WHEN they are too overwhelmed; especially in the instance when he has 
gone hunting for new prey, and has received many narcissistic sources. When their search for new victims has been successful, they are obliged to 
withdraw themselves from the situation because otherwise they will implode. Although narcissists do well for a certain amount of time during their 
isolation, they'll soon take up their narcissistic ways again. In fact, their isolation will not exceed 1 week max, because they cannot fight off 
temptation to manipulation any longer.

Does the narcissist ever get sad?

As much as they may like to hide and conceal their emotions, narcissists are just like anyone else when it comes to their feelings, meaning they do 
get sad at points. However, that being said, they'll never openly admit to feeling down or upset, because they are simply scared of people judging 
them and looking upon them as weak. Plus, these personalities never really talk about their feelings either, or share with those close to them when 
they are feeling down. In fact, their behavior gives away when they are sad, because they instantly become very vindictive and even more relentless 
in their actions.

Can a narcissist be likable?

At the beginning, narcissists can come across as very friendly, attractive and fun to be around. However, this is just a technique for them to seduce 
their prey and destroy them little by little. Most narcissists are unaware of their problem and are convinced that they are acting for the good of 
others (a minority is sadistic and takes pleasure in making others suffer). The manipulations of these people can be distinguished from emotional 
blackmail, small lies or guilt-tripping of others, which make everyone more or less manipulative. The signs are similar and usually appear in early 
adulthood.

Here are 5 signs of a narcissist and how they behave:

an excessive need to be adulated
a strong tendency to megalomania
egocentricity
a low degree of empathy towards others
an excessive quest for recognition.

What do narcissists do when they're alone?

When a narcissist finds themselves alone in their life, they may feel an emotional void or a sense of loneliness, but this depends on the person and 
their level of self-awareness. Some people with narcissistic personality disorder may have difficulty coping with loneliness, as they need the 
attention and validation of others to feel important and valued.

However, other people with narcissistic personality disorder may prefer to be alone rather than in the company of people they consider inferior or 
uninteresting. These people may have interests or passions that keep them busy and give them a sense of satisfaction or achievement. In some cases, 
loneliness can actually reinforce narcissistic behavior in a person with narcissistic personality disorder. They may be tempted to put themselves 
forward or boast more to attract the attention of others, even when they're not in their presence. How a person with this personality reacts to 
loneliness depends on many factors, such as the severity of their disorder, their level of self-awareness, and their other personality traits.

Editor's opinion - Expressing their feelings is impossible for them

We all have certain struggles when it comes to talking about how we feel, but a narcissist's inability to express what they are going through is 
definitely more penalizing for them than for anyone else. These personalities are lonely, yet their innate traits prevent them for breaking the cycle 
of loneliness, and also dissuades others from attempting to pull them out of their misery.