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On Fri, 21 Feb 2025 16:30:16 -0600
AlleyCat <katt@gmail.com> wrote:

> On Fri, 21 Feb 2025 12:15:38 -0700,  tye syding says...  
> 
> > 
> > On Thu, 20 Feb 2025 16:45:42 -0800
> > Alan <nuh-uh@nope.com> wrote:
> >   
> > > You cannot tell someone how much you're saving...  
> > 
> > https://www.whitehouse.gov/articles/2025/02/at-usaid-waste-and-abuse-runs-deep/
> > 
> > For decades, the United States Agency for International Development
> > (USAID) has been unaccountable to taxpayers as it funnels massive
> > sums of money to the ridiculous ? and, in many cases, malicious ?
> > pet projects of entrenched bureaucrats, with next-to-no oversight.
> > 
> > Here are only a few examples of the WASTE and ABUSE:
> > 
> > $1.5 million to ?advance diversity equity and inclusion in Serbia?s
> > workplaces and business communities? $70,000 for production of a
> > ?DEI musical? in Ireland $2.5 million for electric vehicles for
> > Vietnam $47,000 for a ?transgender opera? in Colombia
> > $32,000 for a ?transgender comic book? in Peru
> > $2 million for sex changes and ?LGBT activism? in Guatemala
> > $6 million to fund tourism in Egypt
> > Hundreds of thousands of dollars for a non-profit linked to
> > designated terrorist organizations ? even AFTER an inspector
> > general launched an investigation Millions to EcoHealth Alliance ?
> > which was involved in research at the Wuhan lab ?Hundreds of
> > thousands of meals that went to al Qaeda-affiliated fighters in
> > Syria? Funding to print ?personalized? contraceptives birth control
> > devices in developing countries Hundreds of millions of dollars to
> > fund ?irrigation canals, farming equipment, and even fertilizer
> > used to support the unprecedented poppy cultivation and heroin
> > production in Afghanistan,? benefiting the Taliban The list
> > literally goes on and on ? and it has all been happening for
> > decades.
> > 
> > Under President Trump, the waste, fraud, and abuse ENDS NOW.  
> 
> Ski Bunny Whiner Will Say:
> 
> "Bu bu bu but youuuuu donnnnn't havvvvve annnnyyyyy
> prooooooooooffffff thaaaaat thossssssse arrre wasssstefulllllll."
> 
> Shut up!
> 
> Whining little faggot.
> 
> PLONK!

Indeed!

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> 
> What Happens When You Ignore A Narcissist Like Alan "Ski Bunny" Baker
> and Why He Hates Being Ignored?
> 
> The Connection Between Narcisism and Ego
> 
> Narcissism is closely related to an inflated ego and an exaggerated
> sense of self-worth. Narcissists often have a grandiose view of their
> own abilities, and their need for admiration from others fuels their
> inflated sense of self.
> 
> It is well-known that narcissists hate being ignored. But why do they
> detest it so much, and how do they react when faced with being
> disregarded? Navigating a relationship with a narcissist can be
> challenging, but understanding their behavior and how they respond to
> being ignored can be vital in maintaining your own boundaries and
> mental health.
> 
> This article will discuss why narcissists have such a strong aversion
> to being ignored and the potential risks and benefits of utilizing
> this strategy in dealing with narcissistic individuals in your life.
> 
> When they're being ignored, a narcissist's ego is threatened,
> undermining what's called their "narcissistic supply" - the attention
> and validation they crave.
> 
> This can cause them great distress and lead to a variety of
> unpleasant reactions.
> 
> 
> Craving Admiration and Validation.
> 
> Narcissists constantly seek admiration and validation from others to
> maintain their self-image. They need constant attention and
> reassurance of their worth, which is why they can't stand being
> ignored.
> 
> When you don't give them the attention they want, they feel their
> sense of self slipping away. Ignoring a narcissist can be a powerful
> way to diminish their impact on your life and regain control over
> your own emotional well-being.
> 
> 
> The Threat on their Sense of Self.
> 
> A narcissist's sense of self is intricately tied to how others
> perceive them. When they are being ignored, they feel as if they are
> losing control over their image and self-worth. This perceived loss
> is extremely distressing for the narcissist, as it threatens the very
> core of their identity. This is one of the main reasons why
> narcissists react so strongly to being ignored.
> 
> Is Ignoring a Narcissist the Best Approach?
> 
> Yes.
> 
> 
> Benefits of Ignoring the Narcissist
> 
> Ignoring a narcissist can be an effective way to distance yourself
> from their manipulative behavior and regain control over your life.
> 
> By not responding to their text messages, calls, or other attempts to
> gain your attention, you are asserting control over the relationship
> and potentially diminishing the narcissist's ability to manipulate
> you. This can lead to a sense of empowerment and personal growth.
> Potential Risks of Ignoring a Narcissist.
> 
> While ignoring a narcissist may seem like a straightforward way to
> regain control, it is not without its potential risks.
> 
> An ignored narcissist may feel threatened and become more aggressive
> or vengeful in an attempt to regain attention.
> 
> This can result in escalating tensions and the potential for
> emotional or even physical harm. It's critical to weigh the potential
> benefits and drawbacks before deciding whether to ignore a narcissist
> in your life.
> 
> 
> Context Matters: When to Use This Strategy.
> 
> The decision to ignore a narcissist should not be taken lightly, as
> each situation and individual is unique.
> 
> In some cases, it may be the most effective way to regain control and
> distance yourself from their manipulation. In other cases, it could
> exacerbate the situation and put you at risk.
> 
> Carefully consider the context and dynamics of your relationship with
> a narcissist before deciding if ignoring them is the best course of
> action.
> 
> 
> What Happens When You Start Ignoring a Narcissist!??
> 
> Initial Attempts to Get You Back. PLEASE COME BACK!
> 
> Narcissists cannot bear the thought of being disregarded, and once
> they realize you're ignoring them, they will likely ramp up their
> efforts to regain your attention.
> 
> This may include text messages, phone calls, or showing up
> unannounced at your home or workplace. They may also try to reach out
> through mutual friends or family members, attempting to re-establish
> contact and regain their source of narcissistic supply.
> 
> 
> The Enraged Narcissist: Confrontations and Retaliation.
> 
> If ignoring the narcissist does not bring about the desired response,
> they may become increasingly angry and confrontational.
> 
> At this point, the narcissist will often engage in retaliatory and
> vindictive behavior, such as spreading lies, attempting to damage
> your reputation, or in extreme cases, behaving aggressively or
> violently.
> 
> 
> Long-Term Effects of Ignoring the Narcissist.
> 
> Although the short-term effects of ignoring a narcissist can be
> challenging, the long-term effects may prove rewarding. Once a
> narcissist recognizes that their attempts to regain your attention
> are unsuccessful, they may eventually grow tired and move on, seeking
> validation elsewhere.
> 
> However, this is not guaranteed and may greatly depend on the
> specific individual and circumstances.
> 
> 
> How Narcissists Try to Manipulate You When Ignored
> 
> Hoovering: Sucking You Back In.
> 
> When ignored, some narcissists will employ a tactic called
> "hoovering" to try to lure you back into their sphere of influence.
> This can involve sudden displays of affection, apologies, or promises
> to change - all aimed at sucking you back into the relationship and
> reestablishing their control over you.
> 
> 
> Triangulation: The Narcissist's Divide and Conquer Strategy.
> 
> Another manipulative tactic narcissists use is triangulation, wherein
> they attempt to create tension and conflict between two or more
> people to suit their own agenda.
> 
> When you ignore a narcissist, they may try to manipulate others
> against you or force you into situations where you must compete for
> their attention and validation.
> 
> 
> Flying Monkeys: Enlisting Others to Do Their Bidding.
> 
> In an effort to regain control, a narcissist may enlist the help of
> others or "flying monkeys" to pressure you into engaging with them.
> 
> This can manifest as friends, family, or coworkers relaying messages
> from the narcissist or pressuring you to 'make amends." It is
> important to stand firm in your boundaries and refuse to allow others
> to serve as conduits for the narcissist's manipulation.
> 
> 
> Will a Narcissist Leave You Alone If You Ignore Them?
> 
> Context-Dependent: Varying Responses and Timelines.
> 
> There is no one-size-fits-all answer to whether a narcissist will
> leave you alone if you ignore them. The response and timeline can
> greatly vary depending on factors such as the narcissist's level of
> attachment, the balance of power in the relationship, and their
> access to alternative sources of narcissistic supply.
> 
> 
> Dealing with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
> 
> If you're dealing with someone who has a diagnosed or suspected
> Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), it's important to remember
> that their reactions to being ignored may be more intense,
> unpredictable, and potentially dangerous. Seeking professional
> support and guidance in navigating these relationships can be
> essential for your own emotional and physical well-being.
> 
> 
> Maintaining Your Boundaries: Strategies for Continued Success.
> 
> Ignored narcissists may persist in their attempts to regain control,
> but with determination and strong personal boundaries, it is possible
> to maintain your distance and protect yourself from their
> manipulation.
> 
> Maintaining open communication with supportive friends and family,
> seeking professional help when needed, and developing your own
> self-awareness can ensure your continued success in navigating
> relationships with narcissistic individuals.
> 
> 
> Final Thought
> 
> Narcissists hate being ignored due to their inflated egos and need
> for admiration. Ignoring them can be an effective way to distance
> yourself and regain control, but it may also provoke aggressive or
> vengeful behavior.
> 
> The decision to ignore a narcissist should be based on context and
> the dynamics of the relationship. When ignoring a narcissist, be
> prepared for manipulative tactics, such as hoovering, triangulation,
> and flying monkeys.
> 
> Responses to being ignored vary, and dealing with someone with
> Narcissistic Personality Disorder may require professional support.
> Maintain your boundaries and seek support to protect yourself from
> manipulation.
> 
> If you have found your answer in this article then you may also find
> can narcissist every truly be happy.
>