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AlleyCat <katt@gmail.com> wrote:
> 
> On Mon, 24 Feb 2025 12:42:55 -0800,  Alan says...  
> 
>> 
>> 'U.S. votes against U.N. resolution condemning Russia for Ukraine war'
>> 
>> <https://www.washingtonpost.com/national-security/2025/02/24/united-nations-ukraine-russia-trump/>
>> 
>> 'The United States voted with Russia, North Korea, Iran and 14 other 
>> Moscow-friendly countries Monday against a resolution condemning Russian 
>> aggression in Ukraine and calling for the return of Ukrainian territory. 
>> The resolution passed overwhelmingly in the U.N. General Assembly.'
>> 
>> Still think he isn't working for Putin, folks?
> 
> You have the transcripts to every conversation Trump and Putin have had? They ARE recorded.
> 
> This has NOTHING to do with Putin/Trump, per se, other than the fact that
> Trump is trying to end the war and he kinda needs Putin to not be
> slighted in any way. Hey dumb ass... if we voted FOR the 
> resolution, Putin won't stop the war. Part of stopping the war will be to
> allow Russia to have some of the territory they want or have conquered.


We are this close to dying

Expelling Canada from Five Eyes

https://x.com/michaeldweiss/status/1894419028803727810?s=61&t=ZCHyRu4DjWNZf_cm3_DB6A

michaeldweiss (@Michael Weiss) posted: Picking fights with allies who have
fought and died on our behalf, and rewarding revanchist dictatorships. A
true idiocracy deserving of isolation and defiance.
https://x.com/michaeldweiss/status/1894419028803727810?s=66&t=ZCHyRu4DjWNZf_cm3_DB6A

> 
> Peace ALWAYS consists of compromises... right?
> 
> Maybe the U.S. didn't vote yes, because they're still holding out for the
> "Critical Minerals and Rare-Earths Deal". If Ukraine gives up the rights
> to the "Critical and Rare-Earth Minerals", the U.S. 
> may change their vote.  
> 
> If Ukraine won't compromise, how can we vote them? They NEED to pay us back!
> 
> You REALLY think Putin's just gonna pull up stakes, go home and say "oh
> well... we gave it a try."
> 
> Nope.
> 
> Russia's gonna want something... so will Ukraine... so will we!
> 
> It's Commies against Nazis.
> 
> Why are "we" automatically on Ukraine's side? Because of Biden and all
> the money he and Hunter got from them?
> 
> Ukraine is not as "innocent" as they're made out to be. The only "side"
> WE should be taking, is Trump's, if he can stop the war.
> 
> Ukraine hasn't held election in 6 years. How Democratic is that? Trump
> wants to normalize relations with Russia. What's wrong with that? They
> might help us deal with China, who is our biggest threat, 
> by far.
> 
> Ending a war, is not as simple as a NATO vote. This is going to take MUCH
> more... including bartering.
> 
> The world will not end, if Ukraine give up some territory.
> 
> Let them keep fighting, but no more billions from us. Europe has a LOT
> more to lose than us, so let THEM give them money and F-16 simulators.
> 
> LOL.
> 
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> 
> What Happens When You Ignore A Narcissist Like Alan "Ski Bunny" Baker and
> Why He Hates Being Ignored?
> 
> The Connection Between Narcisism and Ego
> 
> Narcissism is closely related to an inflated ego and an exaggerated sense
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> fuels their inflated sense of self.
> 
> It is well-known that narcissists hate being ignored. But why do they
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> 
> This article will discuss why narcissists have such a strong aversion to
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> strategy in dealing with narcissistic individuals in your 
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> 
> When they're being ignored, a narcissist's ego is threatened, undermining
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> 
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> 
> 
> Craving Admiration and Validation.
> 
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> 
> 
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> 
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> 
> Is Ignoring a Narcissist the Best Approach?
> 
> Yes.
> 
> 
> Benefits of Ignoring the Narcissist
> 
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> 
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> growth. Potential Risks of Ignoring a Narcissist.
> 
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> 
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> 
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> 
> 
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> 
> The decision to ignore a narcissist should not be taken lightly, as each
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> 
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> 
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> 
> 
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> 
> Initial Attempts to Get You Back. PLEASE COME BACK!
> 
> Narcissists cannot bear the thought of being disregarded, and once they
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> 
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> 
> 
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> 
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> 
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> 
> 
> Long-Term Effects of Ignoring the Narcissist.
> 
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> 
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> individual and circumstances.
> 
> 
> How Narcissists Try to Manipulate You When Ignored
> 
> Hoovering: Sucking You Back In.
> 
> When ignored, some narcissists will employ a tactic called "hoovering" to
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> 
> 
> Triangulation: The Narcissist's Divide and Conquer Strategy.
> 
> Another manipulative tactic narcissists use is triangulation, wherein
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> suit their own agenda.
> 
> When you ignore a narcissist, they may try to manipulate others against
> you or force you into situations where you must compete for their attention and validation.
> 
> 
> Flying Monkeys: Enlisting Others to Do Their Bidding.
> 
> In an effort to regain control, a narcissist may enlist the help of
> others or "flying monkeys" to pressure you into engaging with them.
> 
> This can manifest as friends, family, or coworkers relaying messages from
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> stand firm in your boundaries and refuse to allow 
> others to serve as conduits for the narcissist's manipulation.
> 
> 
> Will a Narcissist Leave You Alone If You Ignore Them?
> 
> Context-Dependent: Varying Responses and Timelines.
> 
> There is no one-size-fits-all answer to whether a narcissist will leave
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> attachment, the balance of power in the relationship, and their access to
> alternative sources of narcissistic supply.
> 
> 
> Dealing with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
> 
> If you're dealing with someone who has a diagnosed or suspected
> Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), it's important to remember that
> their reactions to being ignored may be more intense, 
> unpredictable, and potentially dangerous. Seeking professional support
> and guidance in navigating these relationships can be essential for your
> own emotional and physical well-being.
> 
> 
> Maintaining Your Boundaries: Strategies for Continued Success.
> 
> Ignored narcissists may persist in their attempts to regain control, but
> with determination and strong personal boundaries, it is possible to
> maintain your distance and protect yourself from their 
> manipulation.
> 
> Maintaining open communication with supportive friends and family,
> seeking professional help when needed, and developing your own
> self-awareness can ensure your continued success in navigating 
> relationships with narcissistic individuals.
> 
> 
> Final Thought
> 
> Narcissists hate being ignored due to their inflated egos and need for
> admiration. Ignoring them can be an effective way to distance yourself
> and regain control, but it may also provoke aggressive or 
> vengeful behavior.
> 
> The decision to ignore a narcissist should be based on context and the
> dynamics of the relationship. When ignoring a narcissist, be prepared for
> manipulative tactics, such as hoovering, 
> triangulation, and flying monkeys.
> 
> Responses to being ignored vary, and dealing with someone with
> Narcissistic Personality Disorder may require professional support.
> Maintain your boundaries and seek support to protect yourself from 
> manipulation.
> 
> If you have found your answer in this article then you may also find can
> narcissist every truly be happy.
> 
>