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On Wed, 7 May 2025 12:22:53 -0700, Rudy Canoza, forever the mental and physical midget, who was *NEVER* a three sport letterman, 
like me, and who was *NEVER* a bouncer, like me, and who was *NEVER* an assistant golf pro, like me, and who was *NEVER* a 
lifeguard, like me, and who *NEVER* dunked a basketball, like me, and has *NEVER* laid as many women as me, says... 

Rudy likes to say "that is not an adult reply/response.

LOL... look at the shit this psycho writes.

> It sure is, you goddamned squat-to-piss *fat* no-fight zero-achieving cocksucking Nazi faggot.!

The period is wrong, stupid.

Or, is it the exclaymation point?

Either way, you lose.

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(more instances of Rudy Canoza not being an adult)

"I can kill you with one hand.  You know this." - Rudy
**FAGGOT!** - Rudy Canoza
"Fixed your lie, you you no-fight faggot." - Rudy Canoza
"Thanks for kicking my faggot ass." - Rudy Canoza
"'Self' is redundant, you toothless squat-to-piss no-fight faggot. - Rudy Canoza
"I've beaten *you* to a bloody pulp, you squat-to-piss *no-fight* faggot - every fucking time.  You're a zero, as every, stale, 
squat-to-piss *no-fight* faggot who incessantly bleats about "mommy's basement" *ALWAYS* is." - Rudy Canoza
"... you you no-fight faggot." - Rudy Canoza
"... you toothless squat-to-piss no-fight faggot" - Rudy Canoza
"Kicked your flabby faggot ass again.  Yes." - Rudy Canoza
"You a Squat-to-Piss Faggot." - Rudy Canoza
"The disgusting gurgling, slurping sounds below are just the faggots Hartung, Sanitary Napkin and Bit of Nothingness enjoying a 
three-way" - Rudy Canoza
"YOU lose, Nazi faggot." - Rudy Canoza
Little Man's Disease is an untreatable epidemic in this country. 
This is Rudy Canoza:  https://i.imgur.com/kDtydh1.mp4

Sooo adult-like!

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Why Rudy Is Rudy 

There are many similarities between the way Rudy the narcissist thinks and processes things and the 
way children do. In fact, in many ways, these processes are virtually identical. This is because 
Rudy the narcissist has arrested emotional development. 

The emotional maturation that most children go through did not occur within Rudy, for whatever 
reason. Often, this reason is abuse or neglect during childhood. 

These things caused Rudy to focus intensely on himself, to the exclusion of all other things. It 
also results in the mind being taken up with trying to defend itself from his abuse. 

Rudy's mind is, in a sense, always playing catch up, and because of the trauma that he has 
experienced, some things are skipped, so to speak, or don't happen. 

(see Rudy's separation from reality) 

His mind becomes locked in a pattern of defensive reaction and emotional perception, made up of many 
different but related facets, that matures extremely slowly and is extrordinarily resistant to 
change. We call this reaction/defense pattern malignant narcissism. 

In children, these things are normal. In Rudy, they are evidence of a disorder. 

Young children and babies are not capable of understanding the emotions or needs of others. They 
only know want and need. They have no way of taking care of their own needs, and they can only 
scream for someone to do it for them. When Rudy's mother was exhausted and deathly ill with a fever 
and vomiting, and she'd been up for three days, and she simply could not cope anymore, does Rudy 
sympathize accordingly? Does Rudy stop crying? 

No. Rudy does not recognize this. Rudy does not care. Rudy can NOT care. He can only keep screaming 
out his needs, regardless of his mother's suffering. 

This is, in essence, what you are dealing with when it comes to Rudy the narcissist. He does not 
recognize, understand or consider other people's needs. 

He sees only his own, and his inability to meet them. The more damaged Rudy is, the more 
narcissistic he will be, the more immature he will be and the more childish his way of thinking. 

And this is not childish as in, silly. This is immature as in, the emotional maturity and 
understanding of a toddler. 

For example, besides the hysterical tantrum behavior we see in Rudy that is very clearly on par with 
a very young child's, Rudy the narcissist generally believes he is immune to the things that happen 
to "regular" people. 

This is an example of something called magical thinking which is a phenomenon we commonly see in 
very young children. Rudy sees feelings as facts, the way that children do. Rudy the narcissist sees 
everything in the world as an extension of himself, the way that children do and Rudy the narcissist 
truly believes in his own perceived omnipresence and immortality as children do. 

He has always been, he will always be. 

So children believe... so Rudy the narcissist believes. 

The view that he is just another person that must fit into a wider world does not occur to young 
children. 

How could it? Rather, Rudy functions under the assumption that the world fits around HIM, and that 
everything he experiences or encounters is related to him in some form. 

This is the same way Rudy see things. He has never matured past this extremely immature way of 
looking at things. The idea that the world does not revolve around them never occurs to children, as 
it does not occur to Rudy. 

For example, children view their parents as only having to do with them and connected only to them, 
rather than as separate people with their own lives, needs, wants, feelings, etc. Parents are very 
one dimensional to young children; despite the fact that children are only one part of the parent's 
life, the child does not see this nor understand it in any way. 

To a child, parents only exist as their caretakers. It is the only context children view parents in 
and the only context they can understand. This is identical to how Rudy the narcissist views all 
other people: outside of the narcissist and the narcissist's needs, these people do not exist. 

As children mature, they learn that this viewpoint is not true; they learn to see and appreciate 
their parents as individuals that are separate from themselves. Rudy does not. 

The development of Rudy is so arrested that this, coupled with such extreme self-focus means he is 
never able to separate himself as an authentic individual from the external world. 

Because of this, Rudy often feels acted upon by the world and other people or circumstances, rather 
than as people who act in the world. 

In Rudy's view, he does not act, but rather react to the things that are being done to him. It's as 
if he never outgrew the idea of himself as a powerless child, unable to take control or ownership of 
his own life. 

He behaves as though other people are still responsible for his emotions, the way that parents are 
responsible for a small child. He seems unable to own his choices or even to recognize that things 
are choices. And this is also like a child. 

Rudy the narcissist is generally impulsive, irrational and extremely immature. He is careless, 
irresponsible and foolhardy. He doesn't seem able to consider consequences or think about things 
before he does them, just like a child. 

When pressed for an answer as to why he's done something, Rudy may seem just as mystified as 
everyone else. "I don't know" is a very common answer. It may be the truth. He seems to possess very 
little insight as to why he does things, simply reacting on impulse as we see children do. 

Like a child, Rudy often feels helpless in a world of more powerful, more competent, more 
knowledgeable adults. 

However, this is also an excuse. It's easier to be a helpless victim. If you are a victim, you can 
never be blamed. If you are helpless, you can never be forced to take responsibility. 

Children are not blamed for not controlling themselves or for their choices. Rudy doesn't seem to 
feel he should be either. He doesn't seem to understand the difference between a child and an adult, 
and he will often say things to that effect. These are mostly things that no self-respecting mature 
adult would ever say. 

*FAGGOT!* 

He may compare himself to a child, compete with the children, or complain that his spouse (LOL) 
holds "double standards" because the kids are allowed to get away with things that they are called 
out for. Rudy doesn't seem to realize that adults and children are held to different standards, or 
why this should be. 

For example, the narcissist must be asked repeatedly every single night to bring their plate into 
the kitchen, or throw their clothing in the hamper rather than leaving these things on the ground. 
Instead of simply doing it, the narcissist responds that little Johnny never does it either but he 
doesn't get yelled at. Little Johnny is seven. The narcissist is 40 and is one of Little Johnny's 
parents. 

The discrepancy here is obvious; this is the type of response you would receive from a child that 
does not want to do his chores, not an adult. To the narcissist, this is a clear example of 
favoritism and being attacked for who they are. It does not seem to enter Rudy's mind that there is 
a very large difference between a 7-year-old and a 40-year-old. Regardless of whether or not he 
actually feels this way, the childishness and absurdity of his argument is really 
unbelievable-almost shocking in it's ignorance. There is not only the complete refusal to behave as 
an adult, there is an inability to even understand why this would be expected. 

The truth is, underneath of all of the horrible things Rudy does, the narcissist is still that 
5-year-old child pretending he is somebody else to escape an abusive situation that ended years ago. 
When all of Rudy's reasoning is examined, when all of Rudy's behavior is scrutinized and looked at 
through the lens of perspective rather than pain, this is what we are left with: a person with the 
emotional maturity of a toddler who cannot understand why they are expected to behave otherwise and 
who is trying desperately to pretend they are somebody else. 

All of Rudy's attention seeking, all of Rudy's manipulations, all of Rudy's gas lighting, all of 
Rudy's smear campaigns, all of Rudy's abuse, all of the hurtful things he does, when seen for what 
they really are, these things are nothing but childish behaviors that have been perpetrated by an 
adult. 

Every single one of these things is seen in children. Gas-lighting is a 3 year old with chocolate 
all over his face who is hiding the chocolate bar behind his back in plain view, saying "What 
chocolate, Mommy? I don't have chocolate." Smear campaigns are a 6-year-old telling lies about a 
girl to all that girl's friends so they won't like her anymore. Though these behaviors are sometimes 
seen as sophisticated schemes, they really aren't. They are the same childish and petty things we 
all dealt with on the elementary school playground. They are just more confusing and therefore more 
dangerous because they are coming from an adult.