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On Mon, 6 Oct 2025 07:32:54 -0700,  Rudy Canoza says...  

> > Rudy Canoza is my superior, my better, in every dimension.
> 
> That's right.

The act of affirming one's own superiority, especially in a self-congratulatory manner, is often associated with an inflated sense 
of self-importance. This behavior can be seen as a form of self-praise or self-flattery.

In psychological terms, this behavior is sometimes referred to as "self-affirmation" or "self-aggrandizement." However, in everyday 
language, terms like "arrogant" or "conceited" are more commonly used to describe someone who exhibits such behavior.

It's worth noting that this behavior can be perceived as being a psycho and a kook to others, as it may come across as boastful or 
dismissive of others' abilities or accomplishments.

Poor wittle Wudy.

Father ran away from him when he was born, thinking his progeny was a dwarf.

Now, he has to boost his own ego, because no one else will!  LOL

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AlleyCat is one of the several people who dominate Rudy on a daily basis, keeping their bootheels on his little pencil neck to the 
amusement of all.

You probably spend a small amount of time feeling sorry for Rudy, but elated when this undeserved narcissist starts spouting his 
hate and bile. 

You see how Rudy treats other people (even fellow gays on the left), and it's quite funny. 

Have you ever wondered how to make a Rudy, the narcissist, miserable and what makes him afraid or triggered? (maybe for a second... 
then it's gone) 

Just for the record, trying to make Rudy, the narcissist, miserable might have its place for a short period of time, but I don't 
recommend focusing on it for too long as this will inevitably get old, like Rudy's insults. 

But, if you need a quik fix, let's get into the top things all narcissists, like Rudy, hate. (quick misspelled on purpose)

How to Make Rudy, the narcissist, Miserable 

Lack Of Acknowledgment: 

It's no secret that most narcissists, like Rudy, revel in admiration and validation (except for 'closet narcissists', like Rudy). 
Rudy depends on constant approval to maintain his sense of intrinsic worth. To achieve this goal, he TRIES to absorb (or steal) the 
energy of other people. 

"... you you no-fight faggot." - Rudy 

"... you toothless squat-to-piss no-fight faggot" - Rudy 

"Kicked your flabby faggot ass again. Yes." - Rudy 

"You a Squat-to-Piss Faggot." - Rudy 

Do you ever wonder why narcissists, like Rudy, don't seem to mind the negative attention? It's because negative attention also 
fuels his narcissistic fire. 

ANY NEGATIVITY IS STILL GETTING ATTENTION, AND ANY FORM OF ATTENTION GIVES HIM THE INCENTIVE TO KEEP GOING. IT GIVES him THE 
MOTIVATION TO KEEP PROVING HIMSELF. 

In fact, he often likes negative attention better, because if you're still amused by his emotional crimes, he can try to exploit 
this. 

Therefore, a lack of acknowledgment is the real threat. To Rudy, the narcissist, indifference is even more of an issue than hatred. 
Rudy's rather you have a negative opinion than have no opinion at all. 

(sick fuck) 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can't stand it when no one is paying attention to him. Rudy doesn't know how to feel important or special 
if he isn't the center of the universe or consuming someone's thoughts. This is also why the traditional Grey Rock method is often 
pointless and why complete avoidance is 
the best route (or extreme modified contact... just ignore the sick fuck). 

When People Speak Factually: 

Have you ever paid close attention to how Rudy, the narcissist, speaks? Rudy use excessive, long-winded language charged with 
grandiose emotion. 

"The disgusting gurgling, slurping sounds below are just the faggots Hartung, Sanitary Napkin and Bit of Nothingness enjoying a 
three-way" - Rudy 

"I've beaten *you* to a bloody pulp, you squat-to-piss *no-fight* faggot - every fucking time. You're a zero, as every, stale, 
squat-to-piss *no-fight* faggot who incessantly bleats about "mommy's basement" *ALWAYS* is." - Rudy, the basement dweller and 
overall mommy's boy. [giggle] 

"YOU lose, Nazi faggot." - Rudy 

Rudy skews reality to meet his world-view, and he believe his truth is always the truth. 

Additionally, through the use of cognitive empathy, he's spent his entire life observing the emotional language of other people and 
using it to his advantage. So, when you speak in facts instead of using emotion, he intuitively understands he has less of an upper 
hand. 

Therefore, he hates it when someone challenges him with facts instead of emotion. Rudy will usually retaliate with more arguing or 
hysteria. 

"Stupid lying shit-4-braincell Google Groups shitbag loser lied" - Rudy Canoza 

"Because I read the reliable news, you fucking toothless advanced-Alzheimer's shit-4-braincell Google Groups loser shitbag" 

"Imbecilic Google Groups loser shitbag." (his most ardent admirers, the gays, use Google Groups... tee hee) 

This childish response simply shows that he feel out-of-control. Rudy's attempt to elevate the conversation's intensity by throwing 
an emotional temper tantrum. 

"Hysterical histrionic estrogen-oozing squat-to-piss fairy, who was *NOT* a three-letter athlete, *NEVER* a bouncer, *NEVER* a golf 
pro, *NEVER* a lifeguard, *NEVER* dunked a basketball, and has *NEVER* been laid - squealed and shrieked." 

If anything, this dynamic only highlights the narcissist's immaturity. His inability to absorb facts demonstrates his incompetence 
in approaching most adult interactions. 

Rudy is not skilled in the language of facts because he is always lying and hiding things, so speaking factually throws him 
completely off-balance. 

Authority: 

Narcissists, like Rudy, detest authority. That's because he resents having to answer to anybody but himself (mommy orders him 
around, further compounding his anger). 

Any sense of authority threatens his inherent desire for power and control. 

It's not uncommon for narcissists, like Rudy, to have issues at work (LOL), school (LOL), or with the law. Has the narcissist in 
your life had multiple jobs? 

Is he frequently getting reprimanded for his behavior? 

While narcissists, like Rudy, can be intelligent, he often come across as combative and unfit in professional environments. If 
confronted by his inappropriate behavior, he tends to deny or rationalize his part. 

Of course, it's no surprise that most authority figures dislike working with narcissists, like Rudy. Supervisors (LOL) find him 
unruly and unreasonable. 

Rudy can't understand why the person can't follow basic directions without such volatile reactions. 

Being Told No: 

Of all things, Rudy, the narcissist, hates being told no (and actually following through with it) tops the list. Narcissists, like 
Rudy, are used to manipulating and weaseling his way into getting what he wants. 

Often, he'll pull all the stops to accomplish this task. He's spent his whole life charming people to meet his needs. 

That's why telling him no, and being adamant on your stance, often causes such an angry reaction. Rudy, the narcissist, isn't just 
upset about the denial - he's downright confused by it! 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can't actually fathom why someone would refuse him. Because he lacks real empathy, he can't understand what 
must be going on in your mind. Moreover, even if he tries to comprehend it, he refuses to accept this reality. 

Implementing Consequences: 

Have you ever tried to set a boundary with Rudy, the narcissist,? How well did it go? Most likely, you tried to implement a limit, 
and he reacted in one of three ways: 

Dismissing you altogether and gas-lighting your feelings, acknowledging his mistake (LOL), and then doing nothing to change, 
reacting with intense rage, threats, or even physical violence. 

"You impotent little cunt whom I would squash like a bug if I ever saw you." 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can't accept any real consequences. Rudy can't see when he's wrong, and he can't understand how someone 
would ever think he's wrong. And even if the narcissist understood this, he simply wouldn't care. As a result, he tends to react 
disproportionately to boundaries and 
serious conversations as a means to intimidate you and force you into compliance. 

Unfortunately, many people simply give up on trying to implement consequences with narcissists, like Rudy. 

Losing At Anything: 

Have you ever observed young children playing a board game? If so, you probably witnessed plenty of cheating behaviours and 
dramatic reactions to losing. It's acceptable when the players are three years old, but what happens when you're referring to full-
fledged adults, like Rudy? 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can resemble toddlers, in that he tend to be extremely sore losers. Rudy struggles to accept losing, and he 
also tends to lash out when it happens. A few scenarios may occur: 

Rudy repeatedly proclaims a person on Usenet is incompetent. Rudy's attempt to defame or humiliate the winner. Rudy pretends he 
didn't care about winning. Rudy insists that he "let the other person" take the spotlight. Rudy refuses to accept that he lost and 
awkwardly acts as if he's the actual 
winner. 

Public Humiliation: 

Because narcissists, like Rudy, are sore losers, he can't handle real or perceived public humiliation. Rudy just can't tolerate the 
threat of failure. To him, public humiliation is the ultimate form of defeat. 

(and THAT'S why he HAS to be the last poster in a thread, if he has felt that he's been slighted, in the least) 

We all know that narcissists, like Rudy, have incredibly fragile egos. When he believes someone is making fun of him or if he's not 
the perceived expert or authority in a public setting, it jolts his existence. As a result, he'll do anything to protect his 
fragile ego. Some common responses include: 

Making violent or emotionally-charged threats: 

"I can kill you with one hand. You know this." 

Attempting to one-up the audience by turning on an ally: 

"No one aksed(sic) you, Google Groups faggot (wy aka edell, bruce2bowser, galt_ 57, B Hassleback, etc.)." - Rudy Canoza 

Screaming or yelling: 

*FAGGOT!* 

Walking away with obvious anger 

Laughing it off in public only to lash out later 

Making up lies about anyone who is a real expert 

Expectations of Commitment 

Most narcissists, like Rudy, are terrible with commitment. Although he believes he deserves all senses of loyalty, he doesn't 
usually provide it himself. As a result, when he gets into relationships (mommy only), he doesn't consider her needs. He's only 
accounting for his own emotions, impulses, and 
desires. 

Unfortunately, his mother holds onto wistful hope about her narcissist changing. She listens to how the narcissist praises and 
adores her. She holds onto fleeting promises that this time will be different. 

Yet, Rudy, the narcissist makes all the rules. Rudy decides what he wants to do, and he does it when he wants to do it. Therefore, 
he can break and change the rules in ways that suits him. 

99% of Other People: 

How many friends does your narcissist have? Probably very few (more like NONE). Usually, his only friends are other people who 
validate his narcissism, like mommy. 

Subsequently, how often do you hear Rudy complain about other people? (ALL THE TIME) More times than you can count, probably! 
That's because a single wrongdoing often results in lifetime resentment. One mistake tarnishes an entire reputation. 

Narcissists, like Rudy, struggle to get along with anyone who doesn't fit into his falsified worldview. Rudy can't stand to be 
challenged. Rudy can't tolerate the ideas that other people may know more than him. 

If he's a cerebral narcissist, he is convinced that he is unique and should only associate with other special or high-status 
individuals. In fact, when confronted with anything that contradicts his sense of god-like stature, you can bet that his reaction 
will be explosive and malicious. 

Therefore, narcissists, like Rudy, can't tolerate people who actually live in reality. That's why you rarely see people with strong 
boundaries tolerating narcissists, like Rudy, for very long. 

When You Change The Status Quo: 

Narcissists, like Rudy, hate change when it's out of his control. When you challenge Rudy, the narcissist, he remains in a 
defeating pattern full of resentment and frustration, lashing out to make himself feel dominate.