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On Wed, 8 Oct 2025 13:14:30 -0700,  Rudy Canoza says...  

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> [*all* of shitbag's gratuitous bullshit crossposts removed]

Such a child.

NO adult wrote this.
 
> [subject line vandalism by squat-to-piss communist cocksucker repaired]

Such a child.

NO adult wrote this.
 
> On every date, the mental defective AlleyPussyBitch, the narcissist, aka 
> Neutered Pussy ? *NOT* a three letter athlete, was *NEVER* a bouncer, *NEVER* a 
> golf pro, *NEVER* a lifeguard, *NEVER* dunked a basketball, and has *NEVER* been 
> laid, but just a pole-puffing no-fight squat-to-piss shrieking estrogen-oozing 
> fairy ? *capitulated* and *submitted* to Rudy and then lied:

Such a child.

NO adult wrote this.
 
> I *always* get the better of AlleyPussyBitch, the psycho squat-to-piss 
> zero-achieving no-fight histrionical faggot narcissist!

Such a child.

NO adult wrote this.
 
> > 
> > LOL... Rudy Proves His 
> 
> superiority to AlleyPussyBitch every day. Yes.

Such a child.

NO adult wrote this.
 
> > AlleyPussyBitch is one of the [sic] several people who *capitulate* and *submit* to Rudy on an [sic] daily basis,
> 
> LOL!

Such a child.

NO adult wrote any of that.

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Why Rudy Is Rudy

There are many similarities between the way Rudy the narcissist thinks 
and processes things and the way children do. In fact, in many ways, 
these processes are virtually identical. This is because Rudy the 
narcissist has arrested emotional development. 

The emotional maturation that most children go through did not occur 
within Rudy, for whatever reason. Often, this reason is abuse or 
neglect during childhood. 

These things caused Rudy to focus intensely on himself, to the 
exclusion of all other things. It also results in the mind being taken 
up with trying to defend itself from his abuse. 

Rudy's mind is, in a sense, always playing catch up, and because of the 
trauma that he has experienced, some things are skipped, so to speak, 
or don't happen. 

(see Rudy's separation from reality) 

His mind becomes locked in a pattern of defensive reaction and 
emotional perception, made up of many different but related facets, 
that matures extremely slowly and is extrordinarily resistant to 
change. We call this reaction/defense pattern malignant narcissism. 

In children, these things are normal. In Rudy, they are evidence of a 
disorder. 

Young children and babies are not capable of understanding the emotions 
or needs of others. They only know want and need. They have no way of 
taking care of their own needs, and they can only scream for someone to 
do it for them. When Rudy's mother was exhausted and deathly ill with a 
fever and vomiting, and she'd been up for three days, and she simply 
could not cope anymore, does Rudy sympathize accordingly? Does Rudy 
stop crying? 

No. Rudy does not recognize this. Rudy does not care. Rudy can NOT 
care. He can only keep screaming out his needs, regardless of his 
mother's suffering. 

This is, in essence, what you are dealing with when it comes to Rudy 
the narcissist. He does not recognize, understand or consider other 
people's needs. 

He sees only his own, and his inability to meet them. The more damaged 
Rudy is, the more narcissistic he will be, the more immature he will be 
and the more childish his way of thinking. 

And this is not childish as in, silly. This is immature as in, the 
emotional maturity and understanding of a toddler. 

For example, besides the hysterical tantrum behavior we see in Rudy 
that is very clearly on par with a very young child's, Rudy the 
narcissist generally believes he is immune to the things that happen to 
"regular" people. 

This is an example of something called magical thinking which is a 
phenomenon we commonly see in very young children. Rudy sees feelings 
as facts, the way that children do. Rudy the narcissist sees everything 
in the world as an extension of himself, the way that children do and 
Rudy the narcissist truly believes in his own perceived omnipresence 
and immortality as children do. 

He has always been, he will always be. 

So children believe... so Rudy the narcissist believes. 

The view that he is just another person that must fit into a wider 
world does not occur to young children. 

How could it? Rather, Rudy functions under the assumption that the 
world fits around HIM, and that everything he experiences or encounters 
is related to him in some form. 

This is the same way Rudy see things. He has never matured past this 
extremely immature way of looking at things. The idea that the world 
does not revolve around them never occurs to children, as it does not 
occur to Rudy. 

For example, children view their parents as only having to do with them 
and connected only to them, rather than as separate people with their 
own lives, needs, wants, feelings, etc. Parents are very one 
dimensional to young children; despite the fact that children are only 
one part of the parent's life, the child does not see this nor 
understand it in any way. 

To a child, parents only exist as their caretakers. It is the only 
context children view parents in and the only context they can 
understand. This is identical to how Rudy the narcissist views all 
other people: outside of the narcissist and the narcissist's needs, 
these people do not exist. 

As children mature, they learn that this viewpoint is not true; they 
learn to see and appreciate their parents as individuals that are 
separate from themselves. Rudy does not. 

The development of Rudy is so arrested that this, coupled with such 
extreme self-focus means he is never able to separate himself as an 
authentic individual from the external world. 

Because of this, Rudy often feels acted upon by the world and other 
people or circumstances, rather than as people who act in the world. 

In Rudy's view, he does not act, but rather react to the things that 
are being done to him. It's as if he never outgrew the idea of himself 
as a powerless child, unable to take control or ownership of his own 
life. 

He behaves as though other people are still responsible for his 
emotions, the way that parents are responsible for a small child. He 
seems unable to own his choices or even to recognize that things are 
choices. And this is also like a child. 

Rudy the narcissist is generally impulsive, irrational and extremely 
immature. He is careless, irresponsible and foolhardy. He doesn't seem 
able to consider consequences or think about things before he does 
them, just like a child. 

When pressed for an answer as to why he's done something, Rudy may seem 
just as mystified as everyone else. "I don't know" is a very common 
answer. It may be the truth. He seems to possess very little insight as 
to why he does things, simply reacting on impulse as we see children 
do. 

Like a child, Rudy often feels helpless in a world of more powerful, 
more competent, more knowledgeable adults. 

However, this is also an excuse. It's easier to be a helpless victim. 
If you are a victim, you can never be blamed. If you are helpless, you 
can never be forced to take responsibility. 

Children are not blamed for not controlling themselves or for their 
choices. Rudy doesn't seem to feel he should be either. He doesn't seem 
to understand the difference between a child and an adult, and he will 
often say things to that effect. These are mostly things that no self-
respecting mature adult would ever say. 

*FAGGOT!* 

He may compare himself to a child, compete with the children, or 
complain that his spouse (LOL) holds "double standards" because the 
kids are allowed to get away with things that they are called out for. 
Rudy doesn't seem to realize that adults and children are held to 
different standards, or why this should be. 

For example, the narcissist must be asked repeatedly every single night 
to bring their plate into the kitchen, or throw their clothing in the 
hamper rather than leaving these things on the ground. Instead of 
simply doing it, the narcissist responds that little Johnny never does 
it either but he doesn't get yelled at. Little Johnny is seven. The 
narcissist is 40 and is one of Little Johnny's parents. 

The discrepancy here is obvious; this is the type of response you would 
receive from a child that does not want to do his chores, not an adult. 
To the narcissist, this is a clear example of favoritism and being 
attacked for who they are. It does not seem to enter Rudy's mind that 
there is a very large difference between a 7-year-old and a 40-year-
old. Regardless of whether or not he actually feels this way, the 
childishness and absurdity of his argument is really unbelievable-
almost shocking in it's ignorance. There is not only the complete 
refusal to behave as an adult, there is an inability to even understand 
why this would be expected. 

The truth is, underneath of all of the horrible things Rudy does, the 
narcissist is still that 5-year-old child pretending he is somebody 
else to escape an abusive situation that ended years ago. When all of 
Rudy's reasoning is examined, when all of Rudy's behavior is 
scrutinized and looked at through the lens of perspective rather than 
pain, this is what we are left with: a person with the emotional 
maturity of a toddler who cannot understand why they are expected to 
behave otherwise and who is trying desperately to pretend they are 
somebody else. 

All of Rudy's attention seeking, all of Rudy's manipulations, all of 
Rudy's gas lighting, all of Rudy's smear campaigns, all of Rudy's 
abuse, all of the hurtful things he does, when seen for what they 
really are, these things are nothing but childish behaviors that have 
been perpetrated by an adult. 

Every single one of these things is seen in children. Gas-lighting is a 
3 year old with chocolate all over his face who is hiding the chocolate 
bar behind his back in plain view, saying "What chocolate, Mommy? I 
don't have chocolate." Smear campaigns are a 6-year-old telling lies 
about a girl to all that girl's friends so they won't like her anymore. 
Though these behaviors are sometimes seen as sophisticated schemes, 
they really aren't. They are the same childish and petty things we all 
dealt with on the elementary school playground. They are just more 
confusing and therefore more dangerous because they are coming from an 
adult.