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On Thu, 23 Oct 2025 15:26:51 -0700, The Undeserved narcissist Rudy 
Canoza says... 

Woe, is me. I can never live up to what other people have done. I'm just 
a creepy IT guy who has *NEVER* been a 3 sport letterman, *NEVER* been a 
bouncer, *NEVER* been an assistant golf pro, *NEVER* been a lifeguard, 
*NEVER* dunked a basketball, because of his puny stature, *NEVER* been a 
college baseball AND basketball player, and *NEVER* dated the captain of 
the cheer-leading squad as a SOPHOMORE in high school. 

LOL 

On Wed, 22 Oct 2025 10:00:05 -0700, The undeserved narcissist Rudy Canoza 
says... 

> > > > > Fuck off and die 

Show us how, pussy. 

> > > > you cocksucking squat-to-piss do-nothing zero-achieving faggot.
 
> > > Only a small child would say that... while looking in the mirror. 

> You lose again, AlleyPussyBitch. 

Oh yeah, short-shrift? How? By you snipping all what someone else wrote and 
declaring yourself everything that you are not? 

LOL... no... in the eyes of Usenet, writing the way you do and snipping 
things that make you look like a low-class liberal... 

... YOU are the loser. 

You also lose, because you're too stupid to offer any refutations... 
simply snipping what's posted and declaring yourself the winner and 
calling yourself names and giving yourself titles you can never live UP 
to, mainly because you're too short to be anything other than be a court 
jester and an IT's cable runner, because your small enough to go where 
normal-sized people can't. 

LOL

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AlleyCat is one of the several people who dominate Rudy on a daily basis, 
keeping their bootheels on his little pencil neck to the amusement of all.

You probably spend a small amount of time feeling sorry for Rudy, but elated 
when this undeserved narcissist starts spouting his hate and bile. 

You see how Rudy treats other people (even fellow gays on the left), and it's 
quite funny. 

Have you ever wondered how to make a Rudy, the narcissist, miserable and what 
makes him afraid or triggered? (maybe for a second... then it's gone) 

Just for the record, trying to make Rudy, the narcissist, miserable might have 
its place for a short period of time, but I don't recommend focusing on it for 
too long as this will inevitably get old, like Rudy's insults. 

But, if you need a quik fix, let's get into the top things all narcissists, 
like Rudy, hate. (quick misspelled on purpose)

How to Make Rudy, the narcissist, Miserable 

Lack Of Acknowledgment: 

It's no secret that most narcissists, like Rudy, revel in admiration and 
validation (except for 'closet narcissists', like Rudy). Rudy depends on 
constant approval to maintain his sense of intrinsic worth. To achieve this 
goal, he TRIES to absorb (or steal) the energy of other people. 

"... you you no-fight faggot." - Rudy 

"... you toothless squat-to-piss no-fight faggot" - Rudy 

"Kicked your flabby faggot ass again. Yes." - Rudy 

"You a Squat-to-Piss Faggot." - Rudy 

Do you ever wonder why narcissists, like Rudy, don't seem to mind the negative 
attention? It's because negative attention also fuels his narcissistic fire. 

ANY NEGATIVITY IS STILL GETTING ATTENTION, AND ANY FORM OF ATTENTION GIVES HIM 
THE INCENTIVE TO KEEP GOING. IT GIVES him THE MOTIVATION TO KEEP PROVING 
HIMSELF. 

In fact, he often likes negative attention better, because if you're still 
amused by his emotional crimes, he can try to exploit this. 

Therefore, a lack of acknowledgment is the real threat. To Rudy, the 
narcissist, indifference is even more of an issue than hatred. Rudy's rather 
you have a negative opinion than have no opinion at all. 

(sick fuck) 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can't stand it when no one is paying attention to him. 
Rudy doesn't know how to feel important or special if he isn't the center of 
the universe or consuming someone's thoughts. This is also why the traditional 
Grey Rock method is often pointless and why complete avoidance is 
the best route (or extreme modified contact... just ignore the sick fuck). 

When People Speak Factually: 

Have you ever paid close attention to how Rudy, the narcissist, speaks? Rudy 
use excessive, long-winded language charged with grandiose emotion. 

"The disgusting gurgling, slurping sounds below are just the faggots Hartung, 
Sanitary Napkin and Bit of Nothingness enjoying a three-way" - Rudy 

"I've beaten *you* to a bloody pulp, you squat-to-piss *no-fight* faggot - 
every fucking time. You're a zero, as every, stale, squat-to-piss *no-fight* 
faggot who incessantly bleats about "mommy's basement" *ALWAYS* is." - Rudy, 
the basement dweller and overall mommy's boy. [giggle] 

"YOU lose, Nazi faggot." - Rudy 

Rudy skews reality to meet his world-view, and he believe his truth is always 
the truth. 

Additionally, through the use of cognitive empathy, he's spent his entire life 
observing the emotional language of other people and using it to his 
advantage. So, when you speak in facts instead of using emotion, he 
intuitively understands he has less of an upper hand. 

Therefore, he hates it when someone challenges him with facts instead of 
emotion. Rudy will usually retaliate with more arguing or hysteria. 

"Stupid lying shit-4-braincell Google Groups shitbag loser lied" - Rudy Canoza 

"Because I read the reliable news, you fucking toothless advanced-Alzheimer's 
shit-4-braincell Google Groups loser shitbag" 

"Imbecilic Google Groups loser shitbag." (his most ardent admirers, the gays, 
use Google Groups... tee hee) 

This childish response simply shows that he feel out-of-control. Rudy's 
attempt to elevate the conversation's intensity by throwing an emotional 
temper tantrum. 

"Hysterical histrionic estrogen-oozing squat-to-piss fairy, who was *NOT* a 
three-letter athlete, *NEVER* a bouncer, *NEVER* a golf pro, *NEVER* a 
lifeguard, *NEVER* dunked a basketball, and has *NEVER* been laid - squealed 
and shrieked." 

If anything, this dynamic only highlights the narcissist's immaturity. His 
inability to absorb facts demonstrates his incompetence in approaching most 
adult interactions. 

Rudy is not skilled in the language of facts because he is always lying and 
hiding things, so speaking factually throws him completely off-balance. 

Authority: 

Narcissists, like Rudy, detest authority. That's because he resents having to 
answer to anybody but himself (mommy orders him around, further compounding 
his anger). 

Any sense of authority threatens his inherent desire for power and control. 

It's not uncommon for narcissists, like Rudy, to have issues at work (LOL), 
school (LOL), or with the law. Has the narcissist in your life had multiple 
jobs? 

Is he frequently getting reprimanded for his behavior? 

While narcissists, like Rudy, can be intelligent, he often come across as 
combative and unfit in professional environments. If confronted by his 
inappropriate behavior, he tends to deny or rationalize his part. 

Of course, it's no surprise that most authority figures dislike working with 
narcissists, like Rudy. Supervisors (LOL) find him unruly and unreasonable. 

Rudy can't understand why the person can't follow basic directions without 
such volatile reactions. 

Being Told No: 

Of all things, Rudy, the narcissist, hates being told no (and actually 
following through with it) tops the list. Narcissists, like Rudy, are used to 
manipulating and weaseling his way into getting what he wants. 

Often, he'll pull all the stops to accomplish this task. He's spent his whole 
life charming people to meet his needs. 

That's why telling him no, and being adamant on your stance, often causes such 
an angry reaction. Rudy, the narcissist, isn't just upset about the denial - 
he's downright confused by it! 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can't actually fathom why someone would refuse him. 
Because he lacks real empathy, he can't understand what must be going on in 
your mind. Moreover, even if he tries to comprehend it, he refuses to accept 
this reality. 

Implementing Consequences: 

Have you ever tried to set a boundary with Rudy, the narcissist,? How well did 
it go? Most likely, you tried to implement a limit, and he reacted in one of 
three ways: 

Dismissing you altogether and gas-lighting your feelings, acknowledging his 
mistake (LOL), and then doing nothing to change, reacting with intense rage, 
threats, or even physical violence. 

"You impotent little cunt whom I would squash like a bug if I ever saw you." 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can't accept any real consequences. Rudy can't see 
when he's wrong, and he can't understand how someone would ever think he's 
wrong. And even if the narcissist understood this, he simply wouldn't care. As 
a result, he tends to react disproportionately to boundaries and 
serious conversations as a means to intimidate you and force you into 
compliance. 

Unfortunately, many people simply give up on trying to implement consequences 
with narcissists, like Rudy. 

Losing At Anything: 

Have you ever observed young children playing a board game? If so, you 
probably witnessed plenty of cheating behaviours and dramatic reactions to 
losing. It's acceptable when the players are three years old, but what happens 
when you're referring to full-fledged adults, like Rudy? 

Narcissists, like Rudy, can resemble toddlers, in that he tend to be extremely 
sore losers. Rudy struggles to accept losing, and he also tends to lash out 
when it happens. A few scenarios may occur: 

Rudy repeatedly proclaims a person on Usenet is incompetent. Rudy's attempt to 
defame or humiliate the winner. Rudy pretends he didn't care about winning. 
Rudy insists that he "let the other person" take the spotlight. Rudy refuses 
to accept that he lost and awkwardly acts as if he's the actual 
winner. 

Public Humiliation: 

Because narcissists, like Rudy, are sore losers, he can't handle real or 
perceived public humiliation. Rudy just can't tolerate the threat of failure. 
To him, public humiliation is the ultimate form of defeat. 

(and THAT'S why he HAS to be the last poster in a thread, if he has felt that 
he's been slighted, in the least) 

We all know that narcissists, like Rudy, have incredibly fragile egos. When he 
believes someone is making fun of him or if he's not the perceived expert or 
authority in a public setting, it jolts his existence. As a result, he'll do 
anything to protect his fragile ego. Some common responses include: 

Making violent or emotionally-charged threats: 

"I can kill you with one hand. You know this." 

Attempting to one-up the audience by turning on an ally: 

"No one aksed(sic) you, Google Groups faggot (wy aka edell, bruce2bowser, 
galt_ 57, B Hassleback, etc.)." - Rudy Canoza 

Screaming or yelling: 

*FAGGOT!* 

Walking away with obvious anger 

Laughing it off in public only to lash out later 

Making up lies about anyone who is a real expert 

Expectations of Commitment 

Most narcissists, like Rudy, are terrible with commitment. Although he 
believes he deserves all senses of loyalty, he doesn't usually provide it 
himself. As a result, when he gets into relationships (mommy only), he doesn't 
consider her needs. He's only accounting for his own emotions, impulses, and 
desires. 

Unfortunately, his mother holds onto wistful hope about her narcissist 
changing. She listens to how the narcissist praises and adores her. She holds 
onto fleeting promises that this time will be different. 

Yet, Rudy, the narcissist makes all the rules. Rudy decides what he wants to 
do, and he does it when he wants to do it. Therefore, he can break and change 
the rules in ways that suits him. 

99% of Other People: 

How many friends does your narcissist have? Probably very few (more like 
NONE). Usually, his only friends are other people who validate his narcissism, 
like mommy. 

Subsequently, how often do you hear Rudy complain about other people? (ALL THE 
TIME) More times than you can count, probably! That's because a single 
wrongdoing often results in lifetime resentment. One mistake tarnishes an 
entire reputation. 

Narcissists, like Rudy, struggle to get along with anyone who doesn't fit into 
his falsified worldview. Rudy can't stand to be challenged. Rudy can't 
tolerate the ideas that other people may know more than him. 

If he's a cerebral narcissist, he is convinced that he is unique and should 
only associate with other special or high-status individuals. In fact, when 
confronted with anything that contradicts his sense of god-like stature, you 
can bet that his reaction will be explosive and malicious. 

Therefore, narcissists, like Rudy, can't tolerate people who actually live in 
reality. That's why you rarely see people with strong boundaries tolerating 
narcissists, like Rudy, for very long. 

When You Change The Status Quo: 

Narcissists, like Rudy, hate change when it's out of his control. When you 
challenge Rudy, the narcissist, he remains in a defeating pattern full of 
resentment and frustration, lashing out to make himself feel dominate.