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I make $55,000 a year and I’m broker than my 75-year-old grandpa. To
save myself from my $1,800-a-month studio apartment, I had to move
into his basement.
This wasn't the plan.
The plan was a downtown loft, happy hours, and a vibrant social life
funded by my new marketing degree. Instead, I’m in suburban Ohio,
sleeping on a 1980s sofa bed in a room that smells like cedar wood and
mothballs.
"It's just temporary," I told myself, clutching my artisan iced coffee
as I hauled in the last box.
"That stuff costs five bucks?" Grandpa Frank asked from the doorway.
He was holding a steaming mug of black instant coffee that looked
thick enough to pave a driveway.
"It's $7.50, Gramps," I corrected him. "And it's a small luxury. I
worked hard for this job. I deserve a treat."
Frank just grunted. "You 'deserve' to pay off that $40,000 school debt
you keep complaining about. I just drink coffee. You drink a car
payment."
Living with Frank was like living with a ghost from a history book. A
very judgmental history book.
His house was a museum of thrift. There was one television—a small,
buzzing box he’d owned since my dad was in high school. He got three
channels with an antenna. I had subscriptions to four different
streaming services on my laptop, which I paid for by "browsing" more
than actually watching.
"Why you paying for all those shows?" he asked one night, squinting at
my screen.
"It's choice, Gramps. Options."
"Looks like a waste of time," he said, turning his attention back to
the local news.
The real flashpoint was food. On Friday, after a brutal week of
spreadsheets, I was exhausted. I didn’t want to cook. I wanted
convenience. I opened my favorite food delivery app and ordered a $28
artisan burger.
When the delivery driver pulled up, Frank was on the porch. He watched
me take the bag like I had just committed a felony.
That night, he was eating what he called "Whatever's-Left-Casserole,"
which appeared to be leftover hotdogs, some beans, and half an onion,
baked. It looked awful. It probably cost $2.
"Must be nice," he muttered, spooning the brown sludge onto his plate.
"Eating like royalty."
"It's just one burger, Frank!" I snapped, the stress of my loan
payments boiling over. "The economy is terrible! Inflation is insane.
I can't even afford rent. You guys had it easy! You bought this whole
house on one salary!"
Frank put his fork down. It was the first time I'd seen him look
genuinely angry.
"Easy?" he said, his voice dangerously quiet. "I started at the steel
mill at 18. I worked 12-hour shifts, six days a week. When inflation
was 10% in the 80s, my mortgage rate was 14%. I didn't eat 'artisan'
anything. I ate a bologna sandwich. Every. Single. Day."
He pointed at my laptop. "You got a $1,200 phone. My phone," he
gestured to an ancient flip phone in a cradle by the wall, "makes
calls. You got a tattoo sleeve that cost more than my first car. My
tattoos?" He rolled up his sleeve to show a faded blue anchor. "Got
this in the Navy. It came with nightmares, not a payment plan."
I felt my face flush. "So what, I'm just supposed to be miserable?"
"You're not miserable!" he barked. "You're just soft. You kids want
the reward without the work. You want the house, but you won't give up
the $7 coffee. You want financial freedom, but you pay $28 for a
burger because you're too 'tired' to open a can of soup."
He walked over to his old roll-top desk and pulled out a small,
vinyl-bound bank book. He tossed it on the table. It was a passbook
for his savings account.
I opened it.
The balance made my stomach drop. From his factory pension and social
security, this man who lived on canned soup and instant coffee had
saved over $280,000.
I looked at the balance. I looked at my phone, still open to the
delivery app. I looked at the $9 remaining on my $28 burger.
Frank picked up his plate of leftovers.
"You're right, Alex," he said, heading to the kitchen. "I bought this
house on one salary. But I also didn't have 47 subscriptions, leased
cars, or 'emotional support' smoothies."
He stopped at the doorway and looked back, his eyes drilling into me.
"You don't have an income problem. You have an expense problem. You’re
not poor. You’re just paying a subscription to act rich."
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