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I will not lose any sleep.

You probably spend a small amount of time feeling sorry for Rudy and Alan, but 
elated when these undeserved narcisists start spouting their bullshit. 

You see how Rudy and Alan treats other people (even fellow gays on the left), 
and it's quite funny. 

Have you ever wondered how to make Rudy and Alan, the narcissists, miserable 
and what makes them afraid or triggered? (maybe for a second... then it's gone) 

Just for the record, trying to make Rudy and Alan, the narcissists, miserable, 
might have its place for a short period of time, but I don't recommend focusing 
on it for too long as this WILL, inevitably, get old, like Rudy and Alan's 
insults. 

But, if you need a quick fix, let's get into the top things all narcissists, 
like Rudy and Alan, hate. 


How to Make Rudy and Alan, the narcissists, Miserable 

Lack Of Acknowledgment: 

It's no secret that most narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, revel in admiration 
and validation. Rudy and Alan depend on constant approval to maintain their 
sense of intrinsic worth. To achieve these goal, they TRY to absorb (or steal) 
the energy of other people. 

"... you you no-fight faggot." - Rudy

"... you toothless squat-to-piss no-fight faggot" - Rudy

"Kicked your flabby faggot ass again. Yes." - Rudy

"You a Squat-to-Piss Faggot." - Rudy

Do you ever wonder why narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, don't seem to mind the 
negative attention? It's because negative attention also fuels their 
narcissistic fire. 

Any negativity is still getting attention, and any form of attention gives them 
the incentive to keep going. It gives them the motivation to keep proving 
themselves. 

In fact, they often like negative attention better, because if you're still 
amused by their emotional times, they can try to exploit these. 

Therefore, a lack of acknowledgment is the real threat. To Rudy and Alan, 
indifference is even more of an issue than hatred. Rudy and Alan would rather 
you have a negative opinion than have no opinion at all. 

(sick fucks) 

Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, can't stand it when no one is paying attention 
to them. Rudy and Alan don't know how to feel important or special if they 
isn't the center of the universe or consuming someone's thoughts. Theirs is 
also why the traditional Grey Rock method is often pointless and why complete 
avoidance is the best route (or extreme modified contact... just ignore the 
sick fucks). 

When People Speak Factually: 

Have you ever paid close attention to how Rudy and Alan, the narcissists, 
speak? Rudy and Alan use excessive, long-winded language charged with grandiose 
emotion. 

"The disgusting gurgling, slurping sounds below are just the faggots Hartung, 
Sanitary Napkin and Bit of Nothingness enjoying a three-way" - Rudy

"I've beaten *you* to a bloody pulp, you squat-to-piss *no-fight* faggot - 
every fucking time. You're a zero, as every, stale, squat-to-piss *no-fight* 
faggot who incessantly bleats about "mommy's basement" *ALWAYS* is." - Rudy and 
Alan, the basement dweller and overall mommy's boy. [giggle] 

"YOU lose, Nazi faggot." - Rudy

Rudy and Alan skew reality to meet their world-view, and they believe their 
truth is always the "right" truth. They take truuf over fact! 

Additionally, through the use of cognitive empathy, they spent their entire 
life observing the emotional language of other people (Russian sports 
officials, especially) and using it to their advantage. So, when you speak in 
facts instead of using emotion, they intuitively understand they have less of 
an upper hand. 

Therefore, they hate it when someone challenges them with facts instead of 
emotion. Rudy and Alan will usually retaliate with more arguing or hysteria, 
doubling down, even when they know they're wrong, ESPECIALLY when they've used 
psycho liberal tricks to try and change the topic, to what THEY want to talk 
about, since their low self-esteems won't allow them to lose to lowly people 
like AlleyCat.

"Stupid lying shit-4-brain cell Google Groups Shitbag loser lied" - Rudy

"Because I read the reliable news, you fucking toothless advanced-Alzheimer's 
shit-4-brain cell Google  Groups loser Shitbag"

"Imbecilic Google Groups loser Shitbag." (their most ardent admirers, the gays, 
use Google Groups... tee hee) 

Their childish response simply shows that they feel out-of-control. Rudy's 
attempt to elevate the conversation's intensity by throwing an emotional temper 
tantrum, shows us JUST how psycho he is.

"Hysterical histrionic estrogen-oozing squat-to-piss fairy, who was *NOT* a 
three-letter athlete, *NEVER* a bouncer, *NEVER* a golf pro, *NEVER* a 
lifeguard, *NEVER* dunked a basketball, and has *NEVER* been laid - squealed 
and shrieked." 

If anything, these dynamics only highlight the narcissist's immaturity. Their 
inability to absorb facts demonstrates their incompetence in approaching most 
adult interactions.

This is why Alan never answers to ALL of the topics' points or questions. 
Alan's so lazy and afraid to look and BE wrong, prevents him from even 
ATTEMPTING to engage in the WHOLE conversation, choosing and addressing ONLY 
that which he thinks he can "win".

Rudy and Alan are not skilled in the language of facts because they are always 
lying and hiding things, so speaking factually throws them completely off-
balance. 

Authority: 

Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, detest authority. That's because they resent 
having to answer to anybody but themselves (mommy orders them around, further 
compounding their anger). 

Any sense of authority threatens their inherent desire for power and control. 

It's not uncommon for narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, to have issues at work 
(LOL), school (LOL), or, in Rudy's case, the law.. Has the narcissist in your 
life had multiple jobs? 

Rudy?

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Are they frequently getting reprimanded for their behavior? 

While narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, can be intelligent, they often come 
across as combative and unfit in professional environments. If confronted by 
their inappropriate behavior, they tend to deny or rationalize their part. 

Of course, it's no surprise that most authority figures dislike working with 
narcissists, like Rudy and Alan. Supervisors find them unruly and unreasonable. 

Rudy and Alan can't understand why the person can't follow basic directions 
without such volatile reactions. 

Stay on topic!


Being Told No: 

Of all things, Rudy and Alan, the narcissists, hate being told no (and actually 
following through with it) tops the list. Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, are 
used to manipulating and weaseling their way into getting what they want. 

Often, they'll pull all the stops to accomplish these task. They've spent their 
whole life charming people to meet their needs. 

Rudy!!!???  LOL
That's why telling them no, and being adamant on your stance, often causes such 
an angry reaction. Rudy and Alan, the narcissists, aren't just upset about the 
denial - they're downright confused by it! 

Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, can't actually fathom why someone would refuse 
them. Because they lack real empathy, they can't understand what must be going 
on in your mind. Moreover, even if they try to comprehend it, they refuses to 
accept this reality. 

Implementing Consequences: 

Have you ever tried to set a boundaries with Rudy and Alan, the narcissist,? 
How well did it go? 

It didn't. They're narcissists... hence this sig file.

Most likely, you tried to implement a limit, and they reacted in one of three 
ways: 

Dismissing you altogether and gas-lighting your feelings, acknowledging their 
mistake (LOL), and then doing nothing to change, reacting with intense rage, 
threats, or even physical violence. 

"You impotent little cant whom I would squash like a bug if I ever saw you." - 
Rudy

Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, can't accept any real consequences. Rudy and 
Alan can't see when they're wrong, and they can't understand how someone would 
ever think they're wrong. And even if the narcissist understood these, they 
simply wouldn't care. As a result, they tend to react disproportionately to 
boundaries and serious conversations as a means to intimidate you and force you 
into compliance. 

Unfortunately, many people simply give up on trying to implement consequences 
with narcissists, like Rudy and Alan. 

Or, we just don't give a shit enough about them to care.

Losing At Anything: 

Have you ever observed young children playing a board game? If so, you've 
probably witnessed plenty of cheating behaviors and dramatic reactions to 
losing. It's acceptable when the players are three years old, but what happens 
when you're referring to full-fledged adults, like Rudy and Alan? 

Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, can resemble toddlers, in that they tend to be 
extremely sore losers. Rudy and Alan struggle to accept losing, and they also 
tends to lash out when it happens. 

This is why Alan and Rudy ALWAYS want the last word, even when there's no need 
for a reply. If they're caught going off-topic, JUST so they can have something 
to argue about, they will keep up their little ruses JUST so they can think 
they win.


A few scenarios may occur: 

Rudy and Alan repeatedly proclaim a person on Usenet is incompetent. Rudy and 
Alan attempt to defame or humiliate the REAL winner. Rudy and Alan pretend they 
didn't care about winning. (unlikely)

Rudy and Alan insists that they "let the other person" take the spotlight. Rudy 
and Alan refuses to accept that they lost and awkwardly act as if they're the 
actual winner. 

(ALWAYS)


Public Humiliation: 

Because narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, are sore losers, they can't handle 
real or perceived public humiliation, hence, the never-ending thread in which 
they proclaim "you lost, loser."

Rudy and Alan just can't tolerate the threat of failure. To them, public 
humiliation is the ultimate form of defeat. 

(and THAT'S why they HAVE to be the last poster in a thread, if they have felt 
that they're been slighted, in the least) 

We all know that narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, have incredibly fragile egos. 
When they believe someone is making fun of them or if they're not the perceived 
expert or authority in a public setting, it jolts their existence. As a result, 
they'll do anything to protect their fragile ego. 

Some common responses include: 

Making violent or emotionally-charged threats: 

"I can kill you with one hand. You know these." - Rudy

Attempting to one-up the audience by turning on an ally: 

"No one asked(sic) you, Google Groups faggot (wy aka edell, bruce2bowser, gilt_ 
57, B Hassle back, etc.)." - Rudy

Screaming or yelling: 

*FAGGOT!* 

Walking away with obvious anger 

Laughing it off in public only to lash out later 

Making up lies about anyone who is a real expert 

A PHYSICIST is not a REAL climatologists!

Even though climatology has been incorporated into most ALL of a physicist's 
curriculum, affording him MORE knowledge of climate and atmosphere, than a 
climatologist."


Expectations of Commitment 

Most narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, are terrible with commitment. Although 
they believe they deserve all senses of loyalty, they don't usually provide it 
themselves. As a result, when they gets into relationships (mommy only), they 
don't consider her needs. They're only accounting for their own emotions, 
impulses, and desires. 

Unfortunately, their mother holds onto wistful hope about her narcissist 
changing. She listens to how the narcissist praises and adores her. She holds 
onto fleeting promises that these time will be different. 

Yet, Rudy and Alan, the narcissists, makes all the rules. Rudy and Alan decide 
what they want to do, and they do it when they want to do it. Therefore, they 
can break and change the rules in ways that suits them. 


99% of Other People: 

How many friends does your narcissist have? Probably very few (more like NONE). 
Usually, their only friends are other people who validate their narcissism, 
like mommy. 

Subsequently, how often do you hear Rudy and Alan complain about other people? 
(ALL THE TIME)

David Hartung?

AlleyCat?

 More times than you can count, probably! That's because a single wrongdoing 
often results in lifetime resentment.

LOL... perfect!

One mistake tarnishes an entire reputation. 

Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, struggle to get along with anyone who don't 
fit into their falsified worldview. Rudy and Alan can't stand to be challenged. 
Rudy and Alan can't tolerate the ideas that other people may know more than 
them. 

If they're cerebral narcissists, they are convinced that they are unique and 
should only associate with other special or high-status individuals.

Unless, of course, they feel the need to be superior during a particular 
decade.

In fact, when confronted with anything that contradicts their sense of god-like 
stature, you can bet that their reaction will be explosive and malicious.

Therefore, narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, can't tolerate people who actually 
live in reality. That's why you rarely see people with strong boundaries 
tolerating narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, for very long. 

Like me.

When You Change The Status Quo: 

Narcissists, like Rudy and Alan, hate change when it's out of their control. 
When you challenge Rudy and Alan, the narcissist, they remains in a defeating 
pattern full of resentment and frustration, lashing out to make themselves feel 
dominate.